I am 19, and before my current and long term boyfriend I had had sex, but it wasn't enjoyable and I was too young to know what I was doing. With my current boyfriend we haven't held anything back and have developed a wonderful sex life. Oral sex is amazing, both ways, and sex is mind blowing. I never thought I would ever feel this way, I thought I'd be struggling with orgasms until I am 40. But since I am so comfortable with this guy, and we have been seeing eachother for a while and are very much in love, sex is great. I think the key to great sex is comfort & communication.

I advise anyone who is having trouble with their sex life to be up front, risk feelings (as long as you have a solution) and get your O ladies!!!

I picked the third choice but the reason it's not great is my fault, not his. I just can't seem to let go...

I chose #1... it just keeps getting better.

I need to find me some new guys to date....

I chose #1, although i would change frequency...since we live in different cities it can be difficult...however...nevermind. i can't talk about it right now. I have THREE WHOLE WEEKS to wait, but atleast i know it will be totally worth it.

Nonexistent but I'm happy about it. Nobody's waking me up in the middle of the night to fufill their needs...woooohooooo!

jeng- i wish my boyfriend would wake me up in the middle of the night!! we don't have sex alot but when we do its mindblowing! i wish we had more

Um.. i picked #2..my sex life is pretty good,
but i believe that i should move on.

I picked number 2. It could be a lot better, but it's mostly my fault at the moment. I switched to a birth control that killed my sex drive, so I have to wait 2 weeks until I can switch to something else.

My husband is wonderful. He is the best and I let him know it every time. We both have had a number of previous partners but never discuss this. The more I let him know how great he is, the more he tries to outdo himself. I am very happy.

I'm with Jeng112..

You guys are nuts! It's so nice to wake up in the middle of the night or morning to sweet kisses and caressing and sometimes even oral sex, and since you are the sleepy head who just woke up, he does all the work and you can orgasms and gently go back to sleep. It's nice. I wake up up all the time in the middle of the night, he loves it. We are usually too tired for morning sex though, because of sex the night before. We wear each other out.

That picture is hot hot hot!!

it is great but I want to change a thing or two....

Most people seemed shocked that my boyfriend and I even have sex because he's a fairly staunch conservative, but he just blows my mind! He's one of those who's up for sex whenever, alcohol doesn't affect his performance...

I have the perfect b/f in bed(everywhere else too, he's lovely)! He is great at everything that we do when we are intimate and he's all about pleasing me first and him second. That's a nice change from my last boyfriend!
He's also extremely romantic and we've done it on top of the Grand Canyon! So he's an exhibitionist like mua, it's very fun and passionate and exciting with a burst of love on top...isn't that what it's all about?

It's fantastic!

This is depressing - I've been lamenting recently that I want sex more than he does. We've been together for nearly a year (next week) and we have sex maybe twice a week if I'm lucky.

It's bad because when I initiate and he doesn't want it, the feeling of rejection really knocks me for six and I feel terrible for even wanting to do anything in the first place. He'll lump on that he's tired or whatever.

This doesn't stop him jerking off in the shower every morning and looking at porn though.

So yeah.. could be better. A lot better.

I am afraid to ask for what I really want and resigned to the idea that I can't come during sex.

ASIDE from that, it is always good sex! I've just gotten used to the fact that it's very difficult for me to get there. I'll work up the courage eventually...!

You should gain the courage soon. I mean you deserve to be happy all the way around. And make sure he knows all of this too.

Nonexistent and I am NOT happy about it. I'm torn about it too, because I don't really want an exclusive boyfriend, but I'm not interested in anymore one-night stands.

Honestly, I've never had an orgasm from anything but masturbating or oral sex, but I've still been enjoying sex more than ever with my current partner. He's really made me open up about what I want in bed - I still feel a bit silly telling him what I want in the heights of passion, but the silly grin on his face when he gets me to the breaking point makes it all worth it!

absolutely and completely happy being celibate

When does happen (which is not often) it's okay. I'm not opening up and i'm being selfish, so next time i'm doing whatever he wants so we can get there.