I live in a new subdivision and the neighbor one house over is super cute. . . Saturday night I was suppose to go to a club with some friends but I had a long day and ended up sleeping until 10 pm. When I got out of bed I went to let the dog go to the bathroom and the neighbour was outside. One thing led to another and I ended up having drinks etc. on his porch at about 3 am we were still standing on the porch and it was freezing and so he initiated some friendly cuddling. by 4:30 we were upstairs in his bed kissing and cuddling. . . There was absolutely no sex and no other touching. Kissing and cuddling was the extent of it. Problem was I had to go to a bridal shower on Sunday. so at 10AM I got out of bed and said "thanks this was fun" and just kept walking home (next door) so I don't have his number and he doesn't have my number . . . . So now what do I do? Wait it out and see if he knocks on my door or just go over for a friendly chat (awkward) HELP Me! Now WHAT?!!

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I think you should go over and see him again. If you're too shy to do that you could always leave him a cute note on his doorstep or in his mailbox thanking him for the fun evening. Don't be so nervous, he invited you over (I'm assuming) so he must like you at least a little.
1let him make the next move.if he fails to do so leave the note that bookgirl suggested.if i were you, í'd take the dog out more often and "happen" to bump into him.but if you do bump into him,act busy ( eg reading a message on your cell) so that he'll come up and talk to you.
2I agree with bookgirl! there is no reason to play games (like the ones kh312 suggested) with men. If they don't like who you are naturally then are they really right for you??
3Yeah, don't bother playing games. Knock on his door, or if you're too nervous, leave him a note or just wait until you see him again.
4Haha, that is pretty much how i met my ex. Go over there, he is obviously crushing on you!
5Yea definatly go over there...and don't wait too long or it will make things even more awkward!
6oh this sounds so fun and exciting!!!! Go over and get your man!!!! Or if you're too shy-write a note and invite him over for drinks and leave it in his door!!!!!!!! Have fun>
7It sounds like you guys had a really fun night. If you don't do anything about it, of course it is going to be come awkward. If you like the guy...GO FOR IT! It is not like you are never going to see him again. He lives next door. Drop a sweet note on his front step saying you want to "get together for drinks or dinner sometime - you know how to find me."
Have Fun!!
8I agree with the ladies above! Do something cute like tape a note to his door or leave a note in a margarita glass on his porch or something. You should definitely consider how awkward it could be if it doesn't work out though, keep it casual and flirty!
9That's so cute
I can't predict how the future will go with the two of you, but at least you know now he's attracted to you
If he lives that close by, you'll bump into him..like...maybe the next few minutes or so
So good luck with whatever you decide to do! (Everybody has already suggested good ideas for you to do!)
10I say do what you're comfortable with. If you're comfortable with knocking on his door, go for it.
11that's awesome!! maybe if you're comfortable enough you can go knock on his door or just say hello to him if you see him outside! this sounds like a supersweet story, hopefully things go well for the both of yall. try not to rush into things unless you're sure both of yall are feeling the same way
12This is an odd example, I admit, but as far as neighborly romance, watch the movie "Sleeping with the enemy." When Julia Roberts rents her house, she falls in love with her neighbor...(Forget about the violent parts with her ex-hubby...hee hee hee...
13What a cute way to meet! What an adorable story! You must take action!
14Dont play games- that is so high school. you want to see him again- go see him again.
15Send him an invitation to drinks and dinner at your house. Let him know you would like to return the favor. You will be able to get a reading on him by his response.
16Well, since you know his address you can always go to anywho.com and get his phone number. Give him a call or go next door break the ice. Don't let uncertainties stop you from experiencing what could be the best romance of your life.
17if you really want him, why not go for it? some guys like it when the girl steps in and makes the next move because then they aren't always on the spot.
18this is so funny b/c almost the same exact thing happened to me except i had to be up early for a baby shower....go for it! he left a note on my car the next day and we've been together ever since!
19I agree with barjar "Send him an invitation to drinks and dinner at your house. Let him know you would like to return the favor. You will be able to get a reading on him by his response."
This sums it up and no games are played on either side. Please keep us informed on what happens. This is better than reading a romance novel. Good luck girl!
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