Being single can be hard, and dating can be tough, tiring, and oftentimes hard on the ego. I am sure we have all been there - you go on what you think is a great date, you end it with a good night kiss, he says he's going to call you and low and behold, you never hear from him!! What's up with that?? Of course the initial blow stings, but eventually, you get over it. But what happens when you run into that guy again after your wound heals and he asks you out again. Would you give the guy another chance if he admitted that he was wrong and stupid for not calling? Would you run the risk of history repeating itself or would you be stubborn and politely tell him, you snooze, you lose buddy!
Featured
Dear Poll: Would You Go Out Again if He Didn't Call?
21 Comments Post a Comment
More on TresSugar
Fall Award Season
Top Brands
Tommy Hilfiger
Judith Leiber
Adidas
I'd give him a second chance. I'm easy. haha
1I would assume by the second time he'd ask me out I wouldn't go into it like I did with the first. I would go into it without 100% expecting a call after, and hoping that if he didn't call again at least I would have gotten a free meal out of it!
2No way! You get one chance with me, you snooze you loose! There are a million guys out there, why be with one who didnt call me back???
3well i doubt he would really call if he blew you off the first time, so i wouldn't believe him and would say i wasn't available. and i wouldn't want to go anyway.
4i might go just to use him to get a free dinner as said above-Or I would be done with him. Just depended if I was bored and didn't have anything else to do-Then I would drop him.
5i might go just to use him to get a free dinner as said above-Or I would be done with him. Just depended if I was bored and didn't have anything else to do-Then I would drop him.
6I would. And if it happens again, that's that.
7I want to say that I should give him a second chance, but I'm leaning towards only-one-chance-to-score idea. So yea, but I would consider it though if he gave me a good impression on the first date.
8Men regularly test women and this is one of the ways. Men like to see how much they can get away with. The guy who doesn't call knows what he did was wrong. If a woman doesn't give a man who has clearly done wrong any s***, he thinks she's a doormat. I'm sorry to say 8/10 times, he's just trying to stroke his ego. And sadly that call won't be coming -- again. Saying yes makes you a doormat and a doormat ain't sexy. In fact, he's far more likely to call, as well as offer an apology, if you say no.
Yes, there are exceptions, for instance, he took your number because he liked you and was breaking up with his gf but didn't think it was right to move forward with you until the break up was official, but then felt like he'd waited too long. Or he just got hired for a 70-hour a week job. Or his gramdother died. Or he got abudcted by aliens. But that's 2/10 ladies. It should be pretty clear when you talk to him if he's completely sincere. But if he doesn't look thrilled out of his pants to see you again and doesn't apologize at least twice (without you saying a word about it), be smart and let a dog lie.
9No i wouldn't.......period.
10I would def want a valid reason, I might make him work a bit before the date though!
11I believe in second chances.
12I would give another chance if I thought there was a possibility of it working out, but I would make it clear that I won't be as forgiving the next time.
13sorry boys u snooze u lose !!!
14I'd like to think I'd say no, because I fear junebrug is right about men, but if I really liked the guy I'd probably be a sucker and say yes.
Damn. Being single is not just hard, it's brutal!
15Sure. Other things would factor in, but not calling alone wouldn't automatically rule out a guy.
16I think women sometimes overthink things. I'd give the guy a chance.
17No way! I've never gotten a no-caller
and I'm not about to give some less enthused
guy a chance over someone who obviously wants me more!
18I agree with Greggie
19i would
20i aint cheap
21lol
Post New Comment
Please share your opinion with our community, but make sure it is on topic and follows our Community Rules. We moderate comments and prohibit personal attacks, threats, spam, lewd images, or the promotion of your personal website.