Well, the first thing I thought of was a nice big tub. But that problem more has to do with the fact that I live in NYC and am too young to afford anything fancy...but one day . I just love the idea of doing stuff in a nice big tub with bubbles in it!

Bed times. It seems like I always want to go to bed before him, so we lose that time when we first get in bed together to get frisky... By the time he comes in I am usually almost asleep.

My boyfriend owns his own business, and I work from home. So we often find ourselves in our office late at night getting work done.

In my ideal world, our office door would lock itself at 10 pm and we wouldn't be able to set foot in there! I think we'd pretty easily find other stuff to do

I would move us closer together so that we can enjoy our sex life more often. aside from that...we set the sheets on fire anyways haha, no help needed! ;D

I wished we have a bigger bed room (we have a very small one, right under the roof. So typical German building, hehehe) and bathroom so we could have a bathtub there...

I think I would throw out all the computers hehe, my husband is a computer programmer so you can imagine his addiction to those things, I can't win with this machine

I would throw out any t.v.'s. and possibly the computer too.

ummm...i would change how tired we both are by the end of the day. I'm an instructor who runs around with students all day and he works construction and attends night classes during the week. We both also work part time on the weekends.

It really tires us both out and sometimes we're both too "knocked out" to be able do anything..or even wake up for it lol =/

Well in our case it would be to have our adult "starving artist" son to move out. We love him dearly and support him, but sometimes we just want to have sex in the livingroom!! Luckily the bedrooms are at opposite ends of the house so no problem with privacy! For us it's just a case of spontineity and location.

i'm right with you there on the tired factor, #8!

both of us work full time, and by the time we get home from the gym, cook & eat dinner, clean up, and get ready for bed, it's bedtime - and not "bedtime, wink-wink" but "i have a huge meeting in new york with potential investors so i have to get up early to catch the 5am train" bedtime.

i'm right with you there on the tired factor, #8!

both of us work full time, and by the time we get home from the gym, cook & eat dinner, clean up, and get ready for bed, it's bedtime - and not "bedtime, wink-wink" but "i have a huge meeting in new york with potential investors so i have to get up early to catch the 5am train" bedtime.

I am a sleepy head and my bf is a night owl who only needs like 4 hours of sleep a night, so for us, if we could meet in the middle with sleep so we could go to bed at the same time or even wake up at the same time, life would be a lot easier. I hate to lay in bed on a Saturday or Sunday and wait for him to wake up. I usually just start my day and for us the morning is always the best.

One thing is you should never have a TV in your room. If you have kids a routine is good so that you know what time you and your husband have your "together" time. Focus on making your room romantic you can start by something cheap and simple as lighting. If you want suggestions I would be glad to help I do this for a living.

I agree with the no TV. When my friend first got married I thought she was crazy and now that I think about it. That's a great idea.

I work during the day and my boyf works at night time so our schedule greatly affects our sex life! So this is the first thing that i would change, I want him to get a day job so we're on the same page..

i will throw out tv and wont let him bring his job to home

mid-day sex, because he always got too tired at night. which is sucks, because I got fired up at night, hihih lol

who knows...I just need help! he's always ready and I seldom am! I've got a 10 month old, that may have something to do with it, I'm exhausted. But I don't want that to be an excuse. we do have a tv in the room but that's because he stays up 2 hours later than I do and if it's not in the room then he'd probably be in the other room too...help sweetonfamily! any ideas

i ditto cravinsugar

No help needed, none is a good number hehe

I share a 3 bedroom SFH with my roomate and the only thing that seperates us is my bathroom... And I can be a little vocal... but not since we moved in.. I think that kinda hinders the the mood.

we're both students, so basically i wish we had more time. and space! (dorms! eeek) tchan, i concur! i wish we had a tub =]

I wouldnt have it as often