As if single women were not stigmatized enough, researchers at Oklahoma State University, likening single women to certain species of "mate-poaching" birds and fish, claim that a study they conducted reveals that single women are more likely to pursue men who are taken than single.
Melissa Burkley, who conducted the study with her colleague Jessica Parker, told 184 heterosexual university student participants they would be involved in a study on sexual attraction. The volunteers (equal numbers men and women, half attached and half single), were told that a computer program would match them with an ideal partner.
The same photograph of Mr. Right and Ms. Right were presented to the respective groups. Half of them were told these ideal mates were single, the other half were told they were in romantic relationships. The results? When told Mr. Right was single, 59 percent of the single women were interested in pursuing a relationship, but a whopping 90 percent were interested when told he was attached. Men didn't seem to care either way, and the attached women in the groups seemed to slightly favor single men. To hear what the researchers had to say about the results, read more.
So what do researchers Burkley and Parker make of the results? They hypothesize that single women might be more drawn to attached men because they've been "prescreened' by other women.
Perhaps I don't know enough about research methods, but how does this speculation arise from the results? Also, although these researchers asked participants whether they'd actually pursue a relationship rather than merely ask if they found the ideal mates attractive as previous studies had, what does that mean exactly? They might consider it — but I find it hard to believe 90 percent of women would actually go after an attached man. What do you think about this study and whether or not it would actually translate into real-world action?









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And married men are more likely to hit on single women.
1Not really surprised (which is sad)
2Truthfully, if a single woman poached my husband, she could have him. I want a husband who is loyal and faithful (as I am). I would not settle for anything less.
3i'm saddened by humanitty today. do people have no morals?
4Someone who is taken must be more desirable. Whereas a single person? Obviously, nobody else wants him, why should I?
5I think that is the psychology behind it. Not that it is rational.
But I am surprised the percentage is so high!
Well said, GlowingMoon. If the pursuer manages to be successful, maybe that guy wasn't so desirable.
Right Janneth, they mention in the article that this behavior can be observed in nature.
Well said, GlowingMoon. If the pursuer manages to be successful, maybe that guy wasn't so desirable.
Right, Janneth, they mention in the article that this behavior can be observed in nature.
6Whoa, sorry about the double post within the post.
7I have to say I had a friend who used to love when married men would cheat on their wives with her. She specifically targeted married men because she thought it meant that she must be ultrasexy and attractive if a married man was willing to cheat on his wife with her. It sickened me and no amount of reasoning would convince her that the men who cheat would probably cheat with any available woman and that it had nothing to do with her being so ultra-desirable.
8I automatically change my mind about a man when I find out he has a girlfriend. He becomes totally off the market for me. It's disrespectful for everyone involved including the single girl who pursues a taken man. I hate women that do this!!!!! Where are boundaries these days? UGH!!
9I can relate to this because most of the men I've been attracted to already were in relationships. That's just the way it is, it's not something I can control.
10As interesting as this is I think they need to do a follow up experiment with a larger group. Considering half this group is male and half of the females are in a relationship that only leaves less than 50 single women in the experiment. And those women were further divided up into groups that thought the man was attached and those who thought he was single. As you can see it only takes a few people to radically change the percentages on this one and they'd be better off with at least double the people next time.
11I automatically think they're gross.
12I honestly don't get women sometimes. A friend of mine recently told me that she's interested in a guy with a gf, and that he has cheated on said gf before. What?! Obviously her reasoning was that he didn't like her, so it was ok... It just confuses me how can you pursue a guy that is a) committed and b) a giant jerk.
So I can't say this study surprises me, really...
13genesisrocks makes a good point - there were only 46 single women in the study and only half of these were told the person on the photo was taken.
You really can't make assumptions based on 24 people. I do think that women are more likely to find taken men attractive - but that doesn't mean they'd persue a relationship with them (some people do have ethics)
14This is the case for me but only because I always seem to be attracted to them before I find out they're taken. Then I back off of course.
15Well if they are attractive then there is a greater possibility that they will be in a relationship because more people will pursue them in general. So, I guess it makes sense that I would be attracted to guys in relationships in that sense. But I would not pursue them once I found out. That's ignorant and the thought of a guy cheating on someone is a major turn off.
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