I remember talking to a friend of mine years ago who told me that she'd never had an orgasm with a man — but that she almost always faked it.
It really surprised me because she seemed otherwise like a take-charge kind of woman — confident, beautiful, and certainly not shy. I didn't understand why she'd feel the pressure! (She was an actress, though, so I guess that kind of makes sense.)
Most of us are not actresses, or not good ones anyway, and it doesn't make a lot of sense to me to pretend your significant other is doing something right if he's not. Isn't faking something you'd just have to keep doing? And then if you stopped, he'd wonder why whatever he was doing before no longer worked?
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no i never have and i dont need to
1Yep, and We all pretty much covered this here
http://www.tressugar.com/857030
2yep - and I'm a guy!
3Like the reply says - sometimes it's just easier.
Especially if your partner can't tell...
I did sometimes in college until I was dating a guy who thought I LIKED what he was doing when I would make it up. somehow a lightbulb went off and I haven't faked since. then again, I am very much in tune with what I like and what my needs are so usually I do (especially now with my boyfriend of a LONG time... we have taken the time to really figure each other out and explore and learn so its very very fun)
4My wife has gone from not caring about my needs to feeling "obligated" to see that I have an "O," whether it's going to happen or not, since sometimes she's "in the mood" when I'm not. Even on those occasions when she *is* doing what I like...
5So faking it lets her off the hook gently, without making her feel like she's done anything wrong.
Yep. But he was really bad in bed..
6Never.
7No. Why would you do that? I don't think it's that important.
8Yeah I have. Never really thought about it too much tho.
9I have when the guy is insistent on getting me to have one before he does and I'm no longer in the mood and would rather not have him try at it all day.
10I didn't really fake anything, the guy just didn't notice I wasn't really enjoying myself
Good bye and good riddance to that one.
11yes i have , the guy didnt really know what he was doing you really have to know your stuff to make a woman happy in bed men are more simple to please.
12Never. If they're screwing it up, they need to know.
13Guys need to step up their game on what their doing.
14Nope.
15Yeah, I have. It really is just easier sometimes.
16I have faked orgasms in the past but never again. Now, I have a partner who can actually tell the difference. Faking it doesn't make him or me feel good. Faking it also doesn't help us maintain the trust we've built or the intimacy of the moment.
17Yeah, b/c sometimes there is just literally nothing the guy can do if I'm not in the mood. It's just not going to happen. It's impossible....and yet, the guy keeps trying even when you tell him, "really, it's just not going to happen tonight honey". So after telling him the truth doesn't work, yes I will fake it so he will leave me alone, like he should have when I told him the truth the first time.
At least, I haven't met a guy who can make if happen if I'm totally not in the mood. So for now, yeah, if they don't take my word that it's not going to happen, I will fake it.
18I can't manage deception during intimacy so I couldn't ever do that.
19Yes If it's boring i'll fake labor just to get him off me faster
20yes
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