I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month and things are going really well. I’m on the pill and would be happy to skip the condoms once we get there, but only if I know he’s been tested for STIs. What’s the best way to ask if he’s been tested, or to ask him to go get tested? What’s the best wording? I don’t want to offend him by implying that he's promiscuous, but at the same time, I want to be safe. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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