When you're in a long-distance relationship, face-to-face contact is sometimes hard to come by, which is why couples have to get creative in order to keep the romance alive. And luckily, with so many ways to communicate these days (text, email, iChat, and of course the phone) it's easier than ever to stay connected to your lover. So to all of you who spend time away from your special someone, tell me where you stand when it comes to being intimate over the airwaves. Is it something that totally turns you on, or are you too bashful for phone sex?









Betty Barclay
Alexander Wang
Alexander Wang
Love it, do it all the time!
1no thank you
2i don't get it
only a little bit of dirty talk but not like full blown all out phone sex
It can be fun
3Haven't done it in so long ... forgot what it's like
4Ha, this is one of our fave inside jokes (my bf and i) if we're on the phone talking for awhile then have dead silence one of us will say " . . .phone sex?"
classic. I've never done it. but I'm guilty of mild "sexting" (sending "suggestive" photos via ichat/cellphone-text)
But really, technology has really helped long distance relationships work (longer, at least) my bf and I have been together for almost a year and a half... but we also make the effort to see each other once a month for at least a week and a half (I'm actually at his place right now.)
5Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. In Spanish.
6Oh I really like it. Only works if the two people really wanna do it. You feel ridiculous at first but then when you open up and let it happen...its really awesome. I brought a bluetooth just to improve my phone sex experience. I don't like sextexting though...because its just to mobile for me...one wrong dial or press of the send button and goes to the wrong person...embarrassing.
7haha Party great response
8My boyfriend and I had to be long distance many times and we will have to be again for the next few months and what better way to keep the romance alive than some kinky phone talk?! *wink wink*
9Yes please.
We do it all the time. I suspect even if he weren't in
England I'd still flirt like hell if he was at work or something; it's so hot.
10I like doing sexy texts during the day or sexy talk on the phone sometimes but phone sex just doesn't appeal to me.
11Ummm no.
12When my husband goes out on his month long business trips, we have a lot of fun with the phone and the webcam...it's not quite as good, but it's better than nothing.
13i think i'm too bashful for this... sexting is fun though :]
14me n my boyfriend are far n dont see each other offten ..you wouldn't imagine how hot n steamy u can get..if you both of you get into it..its keeps the romance going
15Just some dirty talk, but i wouldn't get all hot from it.
16I'm a bit bashful, but yeah, it helped so much for my long distance relationship I had with my ex.
17I'm in an LDR, and I'm... okay... at it with just voice, but I get very shy with a webcam - I won't do it. It is hard though being long-distance.
18im married to a navy guy so sometimes he goes away for months at a time so yea we have phone sex
19At first it was a little awkward but when you're in a long distance relationship, it's a necessity...
20No thanks. Honestly, dirty talk doesn't turn me on anyway in any real way, so mostly I just feel silly.
21I'm too shy to do this over the phone. Sex texting? Yes please. I can never get him to indulge in proper sexy texting though!
He just hasn't got his "sex head" on at work.
22sexting yes, phone sex no....even though im outgoing i would get to red in the face. not that he would see it haha.
23sexting yes, phone sex no....even though im outgoing i would get too red in the face. not that he would see it haha.
24It's a private matter between the couple. Each couple is different.
25MY BF is 3000 miles away. We are both very sexual people and we do a lot of sex talking both on the phone and over the internet, even send pics with our web cams. I think it really keeps us physically connected.
26It's definately fun with your love.
27I learned this the hard way! the one and ONLY time I did my ex's older brother AND cousins were listening on a receiver on the stereo!!! I could never look him in the eye every again and when my ex told me I was mortified!
28I don't know. Everytime someone tried that with me I would start laughing. And laughing. Then they'd say something and I'd think God, that sounds so stupid. Like they memorized something they read from a magazine. Then soon, I would feel the sudden urge to hang up. Usually I cut the conversation short. I guess it seemed like a lost cause to me.
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