When getting to know a new friend or when you start dating a new guy, sometimes it takes a while for them to see your true colors. Some women put up a guard to protect themselves, while others overcompensate for their shyness by acting over the top out of nervousness.

So ladies, do tell, if you could offer up one thing about yourself to a new person in your life, what would you want them to know?









Francesco Biasia
Radley
Alviero Martini
that there is a very distinct difference between being kind and being stupid. just because i'm a kind, nurturing, generous person doesn't mean i'll put up with bullsh*t
1I realize that I'm loud and that I joke too much. You don't ever need to point it out to me.
2That you will very rarely get a second chance. You hurt me bad enough to make me cry, or lose sleep, you are DONE.
3I'd like a new friend to know that although I may act slightly weird- im not completely off my rocket! actually once you get to know me i think i'm a pretty decent person. And I'll do absolutely anything for my friends.
4i'm pretty insecure and i am NOT dainty at all.
5ooh ooh stefapie, i agree. DONT mistake kindness for weakness! also, i'm loud and weird and laugh at the most bizarre things.
6That i would do anything for anyone but don't take me for granted or abuse my kindness because i will not be giving you a second chance....
7That I can't control my facial expressions so not to take them too seriously.
8I tend to just be very funny so that I don't have to have a serious conversation in the beginning. I act rather silly..
9i have a crazy temper. and always call back when i hang up on you. always. no matter what i say.
10realize that i am extremely grumpy in the morning (usually until about 10am) so don't take it personally. for some reason i always wake up with a scowl on my face...i think i sleep with my brows furrowed or something. again, it shouldn't be taken personally!
11oh, and i am also NOT an animal lover...so don't expect me to tell you how cute your damn dog is. i don't think it's cute and i never will. haha.
12sorry for posting twice, i forgot to subscribe the first time.
and calibabi, i can totally relate, just replace dogs with children
13That I have Asperger's, but it's not a geek syndrome and I do NOT lack empathy. And calibabi, you don't have to tell me that my damn dog is cute, I already know, cause that's why I adopted him.
14i second all the "kindness, not weakness" comments. also, just because i snap your head off doesn't mean i don't love you.
and please don't be a pushover. or a dense mule. can't stand either.
15oh, Stefapie, me too. Just because I don't want to hold your child doesn't mean I'm not a nice person. It just means I don't want to hold your child.
16I practice honesty even if it hurts i expect the same back!!
17That just because I like to joke around and laugh doesn't mean that I'm stupid or can't understand serious conversation, but sometimes laughing makes a bad situation seem better. I just deal by telling jokes. Oh, and I can be shy at first, but don't take that as being stuck up or snobby. I will eventually open up...
18I'm shy, not stuck-up. I can make a joke out of anything, even offensive things, because humor is my defense mechanism. I'm not as weird as I seem when I'm really nervous.
19I scared easily, but I'm worth it.
20I'm usually quiet and withdrawn. This does not mean I am in a bad mood or cross with you.
21Post New Comment
Please share your opinion with our community, but make sure it is on topic and follows our Community Rules. We moderate comments and prohibit personal attacks, threats, spam, lewd images, or the promotion of your personal website.