One way to spice things up in the bedroom [1] is to bring something new and exciting into the mix. Sex toys, candles, erotic music, and edible undies are all surefire ways to turn your libido from blah, to blow-your-mind amazing! So I'm wondering how you'd feel if your partner surprised you with a kinky gift — maybe a light-up vibrator, a provocative piece of lingerie, or a steamy porn video. Would it embarrass you, shock you, or would you love it if your SO did something to add some zest to your relationship?

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