When entering a new relationship, sometimes a passionate moment takes hold of you, and there's no stopping what's about to come next. If you're unsure about the guy's STI record, then you'll most definitely want him to quickly slip on a condom so you can get back to getting it on, but what if he refuses? Well here's one way to deal with it!
So have you ever had to walk away from sex with a guy because he wouldn't slip on the love glove?









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Nope, the guys I have been with were always respectful and wore one with out any problems.
1I've never had a problem with this either. I think most guys are just as concerned with STD's and unwanted pregnancies as girls are. Plus in the moment of actually sealing the deal or not, a girl could probably get a guy to do pretty much anything she wanted.
2I've never had a problem with this either. I think most guys are just as concerned with STD's and unwanted pregnancies as girls are. Plus in the moment of actually sealing the deal or not, a girl could probably get a guy to do pretty much anything she wanted.
3This happened to me one time. The guy didn't refuse to wear one, he just didn't have any condoms. He tried to convince me for a half second but I didn't want to risk it. I was proud for sticking up for myself because it's easy to say yes when you're caught up in a moment.
4Never had an issue with this, but the commercial is cute. Of course, if I were her, the dorm room setting would deter me even more than an absent condom.
5Love it. I kind of want to memorize that entire thing and say it the next time a guy tries to pull that crap on me.
6if a guy was not to wear a condom. than they obviously dont respect you nor themselves... i had a situation where my ex-boyfriend wanted to continue the affair without condom and i suggest we should not and it was going to be my first time. so i decided not to do him or get a high chance of teen pregncy. im glad to say i have left that guy, and protected myself from any potential pregncie and STD
7That's a pretty cute speech. I never had this problem. I'm glad the guys are concerned about STDs and my possible pregnancy.
8That was awesome, they need to show that commercial all the time.
9If Your Guy wont wear a condom, he can sleep next to my cat. She'll beat his a$$.
10I've had guys attempt to refuse but as soon as I put my foot down they would comply, of course. Though I wish I had this awesome speech prepared instead. They should pump this commercial out all the time, teens these days just dont understand the importance of a condom and this speech might make it all seem a bit cooler.
11Ok, my friends current guy is allergic to latex, so he tells her. What do you do in that situation?
12@LOVE ANGELINA
Polyurethane condoms. They cost a bit more but the guy should be the one buying them. Safety first, after all.
Plus, any guy who doesn't want to wear condoms for whatever reason has done that with other women so he's automatically a "high risk."
13Ah Thanks Pumpkin.
I will let my friend know that.
14my first always had condoms in the vicinity, even if we didn't use it. But after I got my 1st HIV and STD test, I decided God gave me once get out of jail free card and never again would I not take control of my sex life. But one day he put on the condom no problem then after a little while he said, "Sorry, but it's like f*cking a sandwich bag" so I should have responded with "Maybe you should buy smaller condoms, it would be a better fit." But I was in "love" and so I didn't make a comment to belittle his manhood. haha But hindsight is 20/20, I so should have. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERQeVE4xoJA this is a wonderful Def Jam Poet named Georgia Me.... she says it all.
15I wouldn't sleep with a guy if he refused to put one on and/or keep one on, period. That's just out of the question.
I am NOT about to put my health at risk for "love"/sex/some temporary thrill.
16YES! I was also able to give everyone else I ever saw talking to him in a bar the heads up too!
17Never had an issue with this, but that's one funny commercial!
18Wonder if this commercial ever got to air on mainstream TV.
19I've seen it on TV before... a couple months ago though, I think.
20Wow -- after that speech I bet the guy is thinking "THANK GOD I didn't sleep with that crazy b*tch. WAY more trouble than it's worth."
Nice idea but sorry but I found her hella annoying. She spoke WAY too fasy and sounded 13 years old.
21I haven't had a problem with this if I did I wouldn't bother with the speech though I'd just leave their ass high and dry.
22yeah her voice was annoying!
23that was the first time i saw that commercial .. pretty hilarious.
24Personally I think a guy who wont wear a jacket is a complete wanker. I refused to let my ex's near me without one on. My partner and I don't use them but we've both been cleared for STD's and are using another form of BC.
25I have seen this before too
26but all the more reason to get to know the guy AND have the discussion about condoms before you get to the taking off your clothes part. i don't think all guys would just say "oh, wait". and i worry that some of them might be aggressive, especially the ones you don't know very well.
27You take down his details for the child support agency... =)
28No, you don't have sex. End of story. I found out one of my friends didn't use condoms with her new boyfriend because she is on the pill. I am a bit disappointed with her.
Love that commercial!!!
29Never again. Didn't wear one with the last guy, because he'd had a vasectomy and was recently widowed--swore he hadn't been with anyone but his wife for 20 years. Found out later he was sleeping with someone else at the same time. All this in South Africa, THE AIDS CAPITAL OF THE WORLD. I tested negative for HIV and everything else but the three days between testing and results were the longest of my life.
30If your guy wont wear a condom... don't have sex with him.
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