I don't know about you, but I don't know anyone who makes passionate love for hours on end. This is mainly because, one, who has time for that, and two, most guys can't hold it for that long. For most couples, sex lasts about seven minutes, but if that's too fast for you to orgasm, or if your man can't last that long, here are some tips to help lengthen your time together.
- Use a condom. It will decrease the guy's sensitivity, making him take longer to orgasm.
- Practice having sex for as long as you can by having him pull out every so often when things get intense down there. This will make sex about having sex, not about reaching orgasm.
- Move around a lot. Spend more time in positions where you're in control of the speed and intensity. Being on top works well.
- Focus on having your orgasm first, without having intercourse. Whether it's through oral sex, manual stimulation, or using a sex toy, once you receive your pleasure, you won't feel sexually frustrated if he orgasms after three minutes of sex.
- Get busy often. If you only have sex once a week or less, your guy will be too excited to hold his orgasm. The more you do it, the longer he'll be able to last.









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Paul & Joe
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i hadn't seen my bf for about 12 days due to a business trip, and we were both frisky but had to have dinner with my family and visit downstairs etc. but we had a genius idea: have a very small quicky (like 3 mins max) so by the time we got a chance to actually have romantic alone time later in the evening, he wasn't super pent up, and i was sufficiently riled up so i could be able to definitely finish and he wouldn't finish too fast (poor guy had to wait 12 days so you can't blame him!)...by the third or fourth time we did it over the course of the next 24 hours, he took longer and longer
1Also, he should masturbate. And practice holding out.
2MARGARET THATCHER ON A RAINY DAY MARGARET THATCHER ON A RAINY DAY
Pop culture reference, anybody?
3HAHAHA @ sparklestar! Have him "take care" of himself earlier on in the day...
4Unless its a quickie its about me first then him...
5As a guy, I'm appalled to not see the "TALK TO HIM" entry on the list. Way to go, dearsugar. Communication is key, no matter the subject.
6princess_eab, my ex tried that. It didn't work. He still lasted only two minutes. But he was kinda hopeless anyway.
7The first boyfriend I had sex with very rarely wanted sex, and when I got it it was over within five minutes. I'm okay with that, except that I hardly ever got taken care of afterward, and he never was willing to go more than once in a day.
My current boyfriend lasts and lasts...and is always ready.
8Thank goodness I don't have to worry about it my bf is like the Energizer Bunny. Also guys are visual so he just needs to calm down.
9Wow, only seven minutes? I don't think I've ever had that...
That being said, thankfully my bf is more interested in pleasing me and making sure I'm satisfied than in himself.
10I couldn't deal with a guy that only lasted a few minutes. Typical intercourse with my guy is 20-30 minutes. I gotta get mine and that is not happening in 7 minutes. Glad we do not have this problem.
11murmur. ok, i had a guy who had this problem and when i tried to talk to him about it, he was very defensive and said, "well. i have a few things I could say, but I'm not." I didn't say anything rude. I just asked if he could masturbate more.
12the new guy can last and last and is ready when I am. I LOVE it!
13Every girl really appreciates a guy than can keep it going 'til after we get spent. For my man and I, he focuses on me first (because he knows it takes me longer than he does). After I'm done, his turn. Good enough for me. He can't even "not do it more than once a day," so yay!
I'm good with this set up.
14PS: Morning sex is also a great given
15i usually have sex with my boyfriend every two weeks. we spend the whole day having sex in the hotel room. the first trip is quite short..3-4 min. the second time it's longer and the third trip is usually 15-25 mins. so the more the guy does it the longer he can hold.
16for me it takes too long to get satisfied. after his orgasm he has to do fingering for long and with a great speed. he gets tired ..lolz.. buh still he tries hard until im satisfied. he sucks and licks my pussy and rubs it well..he says im too hot for him to hold longer..lolz..
17ugh my bf can barely hold it in and i always end up 'unsatisfied'..
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