Depends on how it's done. It could be extremely sexy as well as a serious mood-killer.

I like it, if done in a certain kind of way. I love it when my BF says it, because he has such a sexy voice, and it makes it all the better.

I agree with austerity.

We usually just kind of ask each other if we're close, he usually just asks me because I can go a little longer and he's usually pretty quiet when he does.

He can usually tell and so can I, so there's no need to announce it.

I like an announcement, although its hard sometimes....

He'll generally tell me but sometimes it'll come up quite quickly. I can tell anyway.
I just asked him the question and he said "would you like more or less information about my orgasms?" and I said "as much as possible" and he said "what, so you can scramble away from it before it lands on your face?"

There you go.

Nothing wrong with it.

i don't tell my hubby, but he tells me. i appreciate it and it doesn't killl anything..

lmao sparkle!

I love it personally; I guess it depends heavily on the person saying it. When my boyfriend does it's super hot. It kinda gives me that boost, too.

Sometimes it's difficult not to announce it.

I don't really have an opinion about actually making an announcement, but if you're really in tune with your partner, you're going to know if they're close!

I hate it hate it HATE IT when my husband asks me, "Are you close??!!" it totally interrupts the flow of the moment, and if I was close before, I'm definitely a lot further away after being interrogated. Just shut up and pay attention!!

i like announcing. And I like to know when my bf is about to. It turns me on.

Unnecessary. We're closely connected, so to speak. We can tell, without announcing.

he almost always tells me... i think its just something that automatically happens when hes about to orgasm, he can't help it.
and he always likes me to tell him, he just likes to hear me say it. so i don't say it all the time, i don't want it to lose its charm lol

LOOOOOOOOL @ jacrabbit84 teehee

Is that angelina jolie in the pic?

I can tell when he's getting there and vice versa, however, sometimes it's sexy (with the right delivery) to hear him beg for it. It also gives you something to strive for if you're getting tired. =P

I don't mind hearing it, but I don't usually announce it, and I don't like being asked.

my bf seems to like it if I tell him, so I do.

He tells me if I'm performing oral, and obviously this is very much appreciated in my opinion, LOL

I like to announce when I am getting close, just so he knows not to change anything! Nothing worse than being moments away and having him slow down or want to switch positions. I have told my husband I want to hear more from him, he is so darn quiet!

I love that part especially when its bad and i want the sex to be over with already.

i would kill a guy if he asked me if i was close. wow. i can't even imagine that!

I tend to think that a guy can tell when i'm getting that excited but I have orgasmed before in a way that I thought was noticeable, but the guy wasn't sure if I had or not - so I usually say if I'm going to or if I am. I hope it's not a mood killer, I never thought about that before.

I definitely like it if the guy tells me. I usually can tell (because he stops moving) but there have been times where i just wasn't sure and I refuse to ask!

he always tells me when he's getting close, but I can also tell because of the way he scrunches his face and stuff. I tell him when he seems curious or if we are in a really good rhythm that if he changed i would murder him.

Also, I find it really hot when he tells me all he wants to do is watch me orgasm. So like he doesnt ask, but sometimes he kind of begs for it to happen.

im a little hot and bothered right now haha

There's a difference between saying if you're close, and asking your partner if he/she is close. In my opinion, being asked if I'm close is a bit of a mood killer. It just annoys me.

I always say so so he knows to keep doing what he's doing!

ah he loves it when i tell him, it makes him happy and he wants to feel it.. so i tell him lol

Sometimes I do sometimes I don't. I'll always tell him to "keep doing that" when I'm close and he gets the hint. I hate being asked if I'm close or if I came yet. Ruins everything! My bf will always tell me when he's about to cum and it's almost always like he's asking permission to see if it's ok or if I want more. He's so cute.

My key words are "Right there" and "I'm about to". I think those work pretty well.

I don't really care either way. He doesn't announce it but I do. It's not really necessary for me to announce it either because he can tell when I'm close, but I do it anyway

No hard and fast way for me, I don't normally announce simply because for me it can be tricky to tell if I'm going to go over the edge or not, and I'd hate be to like "I'm about to" and then not, because it probably isn't his fault, or really nothing wrong at all.
I don't mind either way if they announce, unless it's oral, in which case I think it should be mandatory. Have learned however that not all guys think it's as important to warn when you're in that position so I make a point of telling them it is now.

i agree with designerel! ^_^ i often tell him when i'm about to ya know... and he doesn't... but he loves it when i do that... makes him ask for more.. ^_^

It varies. I usually orgasm more than a couple times during sex so sometimes I will tell and sometimes I won't. He never asks, he just knows.

I only ask him when I am getting tired and he then knows to speed it up. He tells anyway though

This subject always makes me think of the dreaded movies where the women SCREAM that (it) is about to happen - WAY overkill! If "it" is about to happen, don't ruin the moment - let things take their course. And, as some have said, it could be a booster or killer to an ego if the other were to announce it. I like the old joke - "Saying - 'Oh, GOD! I'm (cumming)' doesn't mean you're going to church." LOL

I always announce, you should always announce...that way your partner will know what the tempo should be...(e.g., slower, faster, no change,etc.)

I dated this helicopter pilot once and during sex he said he was ready to come in for a landing.
He thought it was sexy but I started to laugh in hysterics and I had to get up.
So much for announcing. Beware of the partners state of mind before you decide to get creative.

I love it when my boyfriend asks me when were doing oral. He talks dirty to me while he does it too. He will say come on baby I know you want it cum baby cum its so hot and him talking to me is what puts me over the edge.