It's a sad but true fact that women usually take a lot longer to orgasm than men. It doesn't help that many of us can't orgasm through intercourse alone — we need clitoral stimulation, which is why oral sex is so important! If that's the case, how do you feel about having oral sex every time you get it on? Does having it that often make it less special? Or are you all in favor of doing anything and everything you can to help you reach the mighty O?
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"Does having it that often make it less special?"
1Seriously, is this the question you want to be asking us about oral sex? I'm kinda dumbfounded.
Nope, not every time. I don't always get dessert with dinner; so, oral sex is no different, lol.
2Seriously, if you can't orgasm through intercourse then who wouldn't want oral every time they had sex? Less special? Sorry, not an issue here.
3Yeah, I think getting oral every time makes it a bit less special...but with that said, I like it preeeety often. My boy's amazing...
4i can't orgasm through intercourse alone, and i think if i'm working to get him off, the same should be done in return. we've been together 3 years.. and we've always been one for one. ha
5I just don't get off on Oral Sex. So it's really not an issue for me, I'd actually rather just have intercourse. Or if nothing else, give oral sex (which I find much more fun than receiving).
6I dunno, maybe I'm just weird lol
Honey I couldn't of said it any better...
7I like getting it but there are time I'm not in the mood for it and I'd just rather get down and dirty with straight out intercourse.
I don't orgasm through intercourse alone but I also don't need to get off every time I have sex.
8I like getting it but there are time I'm not in the mood for it and I'd just rather get down and dirty with straight out intercourse.
I don't orgasm through intercourse alone but I also don't need to get off every time I have sex.
9depends if i am clean.
10i wont let my bf do it if im dirty.
i like to get it. but i don't really like to give it. lol.
But I will of course that is what a good gf does to keep her man happy.
No MegN you are not weird. A LOT of women don't get off from oral (myself included).
It's a myth that we all do and that we all need it to get off. Some of us do. Some of us like it even though it doesn't get us off. Some of us don't like it at all, no matter how skilled our partner because our nerves are just too sensitive (really!). Some women need a vibrator to get off. There's a lot of variety in how our bodies work and some women don't figure out what works for them until well until their 20s/30s because of the complete and utter lack of mainstream media communication about this stuff. Hence my initial response to the question.
This could be an amazing forum and opportunity for us to discuss openly and share what we need / what makes us happy.
11I'm with SingleGirl - this is kind of a ridiculous question.
As for me, I have plenty of other ways to orgasm and d I'm not always comfortable getting oral sex. (We keep trying but I've got some sort of mental block. ) But if it was the only thing that did the job, I wouldn't worry about whether or not it was still special. I don't need sex to be special, I need it to be sex!
12I agree with sunshinepoint.
13Depends, if he wants it, he knows who it works, you give, you get....hehehehehee
14Thank you, SingleGirl. This is pretty much oneo f the most ridiculous questions that could have been asked about oral sex!
15I really don't like oral sex. Like, at all. I don't know why. I like being fingered and intercourse, but that's about it. I also like giving oral sex, so I'd rather do that than ever receive it. So, that said, I don't have to have oral sex ever.
16Love receiving but only every once in awhile and I never give... ever.
17Oral intercourse is shameful and ought to be barred! It is a perversion, and I will not have it in my home.
18oooo phyllis.. what are you doing reading about this?
19its not perversion, and it is definetly not shameful. its AMAZING when done properly.
are you married? you should give it to your husband sometime. hell really like that
its heathermfrut--how do you get away with that? i dont really enjoy giving so not having to would be nice, haha
20Oral is just foreplay for me and my guy so it's essential.
21i love it but sometimes i just want to go straight to sex!
22I don't always feel like giving (even though I get pestered into it a lot) and I rarely feel like receiving. It's fun but I just prefer intercourse.
23I think it makes it more of treat, rather than "less special." I've had it done a couple times before sex, but I haven't orgasmed through sex alone yet, so he makes sure he pleasures me to make sex more enjoyable anyway
24I'm with the ones that don't get off on it. I'm really not comfortable with it at all...I can't relax when it's happening.
25On the other hand, I do enjoy giving though...
There's other ways to get off, and I don't feel the need to completely orgasm every single time either.
I like oral sex. I want it more often than not. Maybe not every time. That would be like making up some rules. boring. I think most men enjoy giving a woman pleasure. Why can't we accept that?
26Phyllis-love it how you say oral sex is shameful and yet you list yourself as bisexual. I think it would be pretty tough to keep another lady happy if you didn't go down once in a while! LOL You are silly.
I like the oral sex myself!
27If it's done well, it's better than sex IMO, but I like the feeling of intimacy that you get from having intercourse.
I wouldn't want it EVERY time we had sex, not because it would make it less special, but because I wouldn't want my partner to feel obligated. My orgasm is my responsibility and I choose whether or not I'm happy to just enjoy sex without getting off, or whether I'm going to chase the ellusive O through manual stimulation
28Sunshine hit the nail right on the head! I'm definitely not opposed to it!!
29My ex would INSIST on oral before intercourse because that's what his stepdad told him to do or something. It was boring and he wasn't that great about it.
Now I get it when I get it - which is a lot - and it's nice not to have the pressure. I find it really hard to climax anyway so more pressure is just not needed.
30I ask for it when I want sometimes he just does it. I don't need it everytime. It's good but I like actual sex better.
31i would love to have it all the time. but my man doesnt like oral much so when it happens i REALLY enjoy it
32Love it could have it every time and it would still be special. My man loves to do it so I'm lucky i guess.
33I love to receive and getting it every time would not make it any less special for me!
34I hate oral sex. It does nothing but bore me,. Sometimes it is painful.
That is a deal breaker. If some guy is into that, I want to know upfront.
35Oh, yes, I have multiple orgasms with sexual intercourse.
Wanted to add this opinion: Oral sex is the poor man's Viagra. When the guy's equipment begins to malfunction, whatever the reason, he offers this anemic substitute for real sex. That is the signal for this gal to upgrade to a healthier partner.
36that is so sick of u MickLove.
37Oral sex is just so amazing. Both of us love to give and get oral sex. and 70% of the times we start with oral sex after some foreplay. and to th best of my belief, it takes courage to give oralsex. we could not do that when we were new in the relationship. It is only when u feel no difference b/w loving ur body and his, that u can dare to give oral sex. in our 2.5 yrs relationship, it is just 8 months that he started giving me too and i love it. i never knew it was that sexy unless he did it to me.
Who has time for both every single time? Seriously...
38favor
39Oral sex is just an appetizer and not always what women want on the menu. Sometimes we just want the main course just as anyone would. And to be perfectly honest, there are some men who aren't experts with everything, so better to skip that part of the meal sometimes if you know what I mean.
40I prefer to give than receive, but it can be nice once in a while.
41I love oral sex! Good foreplay is important to me.
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