Sometimes it just happens, like after I've seen a movie or tv show with an actor I find attractive. I figure it's innocent enough if I would never actually cheat on my husband.

This actually has never happened to me, I'm always thinking about my husband!

i won't lie....yes i have thought of someone else at times...mostly from me reading my erotic books...my imagination tends to run wild! LOL

I've had dreams about hooking up wiht other people but never actively fantasized about anyone but seriously... have you SEEN my fiance? He's so delicious other women fantasize about him!

i've never done this, i feel that i'm usually more in the moment than in an dreamy fantasizing state . . i dont know if that makes sense . . .

Why does it says things like 'writer' 'editor' 'registered' under our profile pics?

Well, I see cute guys here and there, sometimes I wonder how it would feel to kiss them. Sometimes, i do fantisize, but its never serious. Sometime i dont even see the guy's face in my thoughts

Never. It's not that I don't want to or have anything against it or whatever, I just mentally cannot. I mean SURE I can think of someone but it doesn't do anything for me. Only he can. o:

cmd--I just noticed!! And khadeekiinsz is apparently anonymous. The irony!

I wanna be anonymous..

When I was with my ex, I used to fantasize about my current. Now that I'm with him, (and have been for 3 years), I fantasize about... him. I have the most boring fantasies ever - my boyfriend, doing me, the way he always does.

Zzzzzz...

I never fantasize that my bf is someone else, but I wouldn't mind actually getting it on with someone else, or at least making out in a bar as part of our sex lives. So...I guess that is similar?

WHILE getting with my boyfriend? Never. But other times, sure.

It's fun fantasizing about the person you're with, when you're not around each other...but these days, I only fantasize when about being in a scifi world...

My thoughts usually aren't really coherent enough during sex to be fantasizing about someone else

I won't lie, my guy looks like a mix of two of my favorite Asian actors, Vic Zhou and Dennis O'neil and it happened a couple of times after I watched one of their shows or movies.

Never - I've only ever fantasized about my boyfriends or fictional characters, actually. Current boyfriends of course. I can't even imagine fantasizing about someone else while actually having sex - how sad.

darlingDA - exactly! i don't have any elaborate thoughts while hooking up...definitely not picturing anything!

I would be between never and very infrequently - sometimes, like Oohsexypengu said, if I've seen a particularly attractive actor, or read a particularly raunchy book, but mostly I'd fantasize about my partner doing things with me

i have never done this. i don't even know how i would be able to? i am so into the moment that all i think about is my bf.

never while having sex with him!!

when we aren't gettin' it on, from time to time my mind wanders to others a little i guess, subconsciously

I fantasize about a lot of people. People I think are cute, friends, sometime co-workers, and people that I've made up in my head. I do a lot of daydreaming..

I fantasize about scenarios and people that I'd never pursue in real life. There are also the "what if" guys from the past

I have fantasized about other men in the past. Now, I don't even look at other guys which is really weird for me. I got what I want.

Of course. Fantasizing is what helps keep monogamy interesting.

Not during sex but other times, boredom and what not. It's usually only actors and my favorite musician, my go to man Trent Reznor but other than that, no. In my books the main character man is my husband, I'm a nerd.

"Fantasizing is what helps keep monogamy interesting"

I liked that one *melizzle*

Never during if I want it;I'm not coherent enough. If I don't & he insists I just smack him. But sometimes, I do kind of wistfully fantasize about what it would be like to kiss other people. Never goes beyond that though.

I fantasize about us being cast in different roles or situations more than different people, but I entertain the odd fantasy on occasion.
I enjoy it, and the bf doesn't mind =) I think he probably does the same sometimes too, which I'm ok with -- I can be evangeline lilly for a night or two

Never, I think if you are with the right one that's the only guy you fantasize about.

Never during sex. Then all I'm thinking about is my bf. But other times when he's not around, yeah just random made up stuff or those "what if" guys.

When I was with my ex I used to fantasise about my boyfriend (his best friend)...
Now I fantasise about... getting a good nights sleep??

I'm a one man woman!!!!!!

If I fantasize, it's about a completely imaginary man, like a faceless hot doctor or professor or something. Or I imagine my man as one of those characters. Very rarely my hot hookup buddy from college will sneak in.