Last night I went a the third date (the make it or break it date in my opinion) with an interesting and fun guy who I totally enjoyed myself with on the first two dates. We work in the same industry and have plenty to talk about. Things were going great and actually started to get hot and heavy until I took his shirt off.

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I was disgusted and horrified to see he had four gigantic tattoos. Now I'm not a prude or against tattoos, I've been with guys who have had multiple tattoos before but what got to me was what they depicted: highly sexist images of topless females. He had one on the entire upper part of his arm with a topless angel flying and one foot long tat on each side of his back. The two on his back looked like strippers one with fake boobs and a plaid miniskirt with her ass hanging out and the other with gigantic, pointy nipples and a high waisted thong. In between these two girls was the incredibly cheesy word passion. I actually thought I might puke and flat out told him I absolutely hate them and find them disturbing images of a gross, highly sexualized female pornstar/stripper ideal. After that he told me he liked me for being honest enough to state my opinion. He also said that they didn't represent a lack of respect for females but simply that he could do what he chose to his own body. He asked me to see him again but I don't know if I should, I hate to stop seeing a guy based on his tattoos but seriously I would feel completely uncomfortable being with him at a pool or the beach. Should I stop talking to him because his tattoos (which he says he regrets btw) offend me?

Repulsed Ronda

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