Sometimes he sweats like crazy during sex. That's kinda annoying. Other than that nothing is popping into my head.

honestly, we have a VERY heathly sex life. We are comfortable enough to talk about anything, we have sex usually at least once a day, we satisfy each other...maybe I would like to try some new things! Like bringing naughtier toys into the bedroom or something (we already use vibrators & things like that)...but that's all I can really think of!

I wish I wouldn't get so shy and self-conscious about the squishier parts of my body. If I could get over myself I would enjoy sex a whole lot more and my husband would appreciate me getting over myself.

I would LOVE to have a higher libido. It's never been very high; I can go weeks without sex. We are physically affectionate - lots of hugs and kisses - but as far as actual sex, I can take it or leave it, whereas he would love it if we had sex every day!

I wish his thing was just a teensy bit smaller because right now it hurts after doing it 3 or 4 times and then we can only have quickies for the rest of the month until I get a break! Still, how can I really complain?

I would like to add more variety to our sex life, i.e. Toys, different locations, new positions, etc. I'm generally satisfied, but a little spice here and there never hurt anyone.

umm nothing, it's great I just wish we were actually in the same country to have more of it. But in all honesty I wish I was a bit more adventurous as he is. He has serious exhibitionist tendency and I'm always afraid we're will get caught one of these days.

i refuse to answer this question as it is 2 personal and i dont c why anyone would ask this.

xoxo
dino dino

dino dino could you also not want to answer this question because you're in highschool and sex is still that gross thing your parents do to make their bed squeak and the act that the weird guy from your history class keeps trying to make you do behind the bleachers?

For people who are in stable healthy relationships this question is no scarier then asking what a couple's favorite position is or who does the most housework at home. Also, DearSugar asks it so that us ladies here on DearSugar can voice our concerns so maybe if someone else on the site has been through this issue they can give advice or at least commiserate, also, if something happens at home we have already thought about this situation so it will be easier to bring it up with our significant other if ever need be.

The beauty of DearSugar is that we girls can talk about anything we want and not feel ashamed or embarrassed by our answers. So keep on truckin and when you're finished school and moved on to the next stage in life you'll probably understand a bit better.

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Fallen

exactly, Fallen85.

xoxo(K)(L)(L)(K),
dino dino

More of it... I broke up with my boyfriend last spring and haven't found a new one yet : (

it's perfect when we see each other - very passionate and we are interested in all the same things. because it's so passionate, it's hard to, um, slow down sometimes, so the main thing I would change is seeing him more often (we're in an LDR) and being able to take it more slooooowly. I know he feels the same way - we want to explore all these things but being apart for over a month usually, we just can't wait to have each other!

i want to watch porn together but i feel awkward bc i used to be so jealous. i'm not anymore bc i feel comfortable in our relationship now and i know he's not watching it for the girls (duh i know). but it's like i dont want to be the initiator...at the same time if he suggests it i automatically react like 'oh yeah you want to watch some sluts?'- ugh i'm a tard but it might be bc porn is so 'man orientated' that i don't even get turned on.

I wish we could synch up a little better with our schedules - he likes morning sex (which we really only have on the weekends since we both have work and school), while I am more of a night person. Also, I wish he wouldn't pass out after sex! I always feel energized, and want to cook or go for a walk or hang out, and he just falls asleep with a goofy smile on his face.

More!

(I'm in a really really LDR. I can't wait till March when he will finally be here.)

I definitely wish we had more of it. When we do, it's great -- as long as we remember the lube. We just a few months ago got cable, whereas for the time before that, we never watched it -- so we had more "time" to have sex. Now, he gets so distracted by what's on TV, so that the only time we are in bed is when we are about to sleep. I personally think that is messed up, and trying DESPERATELY to change it.

I wish we had more of it. After we moved in we've only been having sex once or twice a week which I realize isn't bad at all but I have a very high libido all week but his is usually high only during the weekend (which is when we have sex) since he gets home tired every night and all he wants to do is eat and sit on the couch cuddling and watching TV. I also wish he enjoyed giving oral, he loves when I give him oral but he hates giving it to me, which sucks since when he does its AMAZING! I don't know how to fix either of those.

I wish we had more of it. After we moved in we've only been having sex once or twice a week which I realize isn't bad at all but I have a very high libido all week but his is usually high only during the weekend (which is when we have sex) since he gets home tired every night and all he wants to do is eat and sit on the couch cuddling and watching TV. I also wish he enjoyed giving oral, he loves when I give him oral but he hates giving it to me, which sucks since when he does its AMAZING! I don't know how to fix either of those.

I want us to be less inhibited while sober. It's always so much more fun while we're tipsy, so it's getting to be that's the only time we do it.

I wish that instead of whining about me not having an orgasm, he would take the initiative to help me learn how to have one with him!

wow i'm really surprised at the amount of women who want more sex! and to think....they complain about us being prudish! step up men.

nothing

Ever since I have gotten on the pill my libido has dropped. Which, annoys me, because I don't want sex as often, but, I don't want a baby, so my options are pretty limited. We could use condoms, but I'm allergic to latex, and non latex ones are hard to come by and they feel terrible! So, yeah. I also wish that through out the day he would make me feel sexy, that way it's easier to get worked up when we do want to do it.

I think I would change his unwillingness to do a threesome. But, I really like our sex life, so nothing!

How hard it is for me to orgasm. I NEVER orgasm from regular sex. He always does..

First...I love my man!!! but..I would change EVERYTHING!!!! Our sex life sucks....after 2 years this is as good as it gets. I tried talking to him but he doesn't understand. I tried showing him but he doesn't get it. His penis is on the smaller size, he has ED and won't give orally. When using his fingers, I always bleed and and never reach an orgasam. This is a serious problem for me but he has low self esteem that I don't know any other way to get through to him to get what I need.