I am not a flirter. I just hold honest conversation. It seems to work better for me.

I'm one of those people who is a natural flirt, I know I know. But people seem to think I am when I have no clue and to be honest have no interest in the person. Ha.

Amen Aimee, I'm the same way. I always get told I am flirting with guys when I'm not trying to. An easy way to flirt is by laughing a lot and making a guy feel like he is funny. Act impressed by everything he tells you to make him feel interesting and important. Reach out and touch his arm or his hand every once in a while or "accidentally" lean on him and check his reaction. Remember lots of eye contact and smile. You'll be able to tell if he is into you. Flirting is so much fun!

Hiding55 I get that so much, "oh do you like him...you were flirting with him..." Ha. Not really that's just my personality, very bubbly, touchy when I talk and talk with my hands. Plus I love to laugh soooo...Most of the guys I "flirt" with it isn't even that!!!!

I usually act confused because most of the time I am! Men are interesting creatures who are sometimes hard to read. So I think men read my confusion as playing hard to get.

I usually come off coy and demurely sexy (I think) when I am flirting. I try to be a 'nice girl' while still being intriguing.

A lot of grinnin, maybe some touching and me keepin up the conversation.

I'm a very innocent-looking girly-girl (big eyes, baby face)so my best flirting happens when I really surprise a guy-- talk about football, do a shot of whiskey, etc. and then give a coy little smile. My husband says I surprise him every day

Compliments always seem to work for me, maybe with a smile. Supposedly I have this look in my eyes when I talk to people that they can tell what I think about that, haha, weird.

1. Act interested
2. Laugh at his jokes
3. Casually brush your hand against his arm
4. Eye Contact
5. Smile, Laugh
6. Just relax ... they can tell if you are too uptight or nervous ...
7. Remember to keep the drinks in check ...
8. MOST IMPORTANT - BE YOURSELF ... N ENJOY !!!!

You don't need a bunch of tricks and twitches. If there's a connection, you'll probably end up flirting naturally, without thinking about it--at least that's my experience. Eye contact, smiling, and fun conversation. That's all you need.

I'm super flirtatious, with everyone. I really just like people and am interested in them, I even flirt with girls, all the time. I ask a lot of questions (i like to know stuff!), laugh a lot, and am very expressive and physical.

Yeah, I flirt without even meaning to.
Sometimes I realize I am flirting with people I really don't want to flirt with!
When I really do want to flirt, I can't. I get all clammed up and cold.
No wonder I don't have a boyfriend.
haha.

True, Jude.

I cannot flirt, as far as I'm concerned anyway.

I tend to get along really well with guys and I like to joke around with them. I'm game for anything guyish, really. I guess this is because I'm the baby sister in a family of 5 boys. Anyway, people always accuse me of flirting, but I don't do it intentionally! I'm just cooler than those jealous b*tches.

I've been told I'm a naturally charming person -- by women and men. For me, it's about feeling good about myself, and enjoying the other person's company. When that happens, there's a natural connection that occurs.

It isn't hard, you just can't be shy. To me, it comes naturally and to a lot of people it really is embarassing or difficult.. I never know what to tell my friends when they want to flirt with a cute guy at the bar and don't know how. I guess you just have it or you don't? If you act like you're feeding them some rehearsed line with a fake laugh after everything they say, it isn't going to be very effective flirting. I would say act natural, but it shouldn't be an act.. just.. be natural. Say whatever you want. Just don't get up there and get all shy.

i second that angela123

Personally, I'm a terrible flirt, and I know it's because I don't ask alot of questions about the dude, as well as being big on personal space. So I need to work on the asking and the touching.

But my question to you guys is this: I know the lame pick up lines don't work on girls. We roll our eyes and write the dudes off (unless they are super cute), but is it the same for girls? Has anybody tried to use a pick up line on a dude? Did it work?

Everbody tells me Im a flirt. But I dont even know the actual meaning. When I talk to any guy, its something natural. Or people period. I do notice, how things change slightly when the guy sparx my interest. Even if Im not totally attracted to him.

my 911 and owners box seats to the Yankees do most of the work for me,

PoaG: Imho, pick-up lines are for guys. Never tried it myself. Playing with our hair, laughing, being sexy etc. is for us

I like to be sparky and coy. I have a very interesting sense of humor, and if guys can follow along with me, they are in.

I think I smile a lot and give them the googly eyes you know. lol.

Sometimes I dont even do it. and they say that there is something about me that intrigues them. lol.