My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a year and a half — long distance. We've exchanged "I love you"s and he says he wants to spent the rest of his life with me, but I'm afraid he's all talk.

I am currently on a break from grad school, heading back in a month, while he's in between jobs with some prestigious interviews lined up, looking to relocate. I toyed with the idea of taking a semester off and moving in with him for a while, but he rejected my plan and told me to finish school first.

I am sick of only seeing him once every one or two months and I've told him that I'm not happy with our arrangement — I feel like I'm always waiting for him to call the shots. I asked for a break until we've both decide what we want to do with our careers, but he said he doesn't believe in breaks; that we're either in or out. I'm afraid I'm going to be waiting for him forever, missing other opportunities to meet new people. Should I keep holding on, or is this a dead-end relationship?

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