We all have our own feelings about nudity. While some of you have no problem stripping down in front of a new guy or changing at the gym, others are more modest, keeping yourselves covered until you trust a person enough to see the real you. Being naked can be very freeing though, which is one of the reasons sex is so exciting, special, and arousing, but would you try to capture those feelings in print? Ladies, where do you stand on sending nude photos of yourself to someone you're in a relationship with?









Philosophy di Alberta Ferretti
Bunny Hug
Jimmy Choo
Remember Vanessa Hudgens? Yeah, that answers it for me.
1Umm, I hope most readers are deep enough to have a "real me" that isn't just their naked body. That said, it's potentially very damaging to your career and personal life. If you're going to do it, I've got to suggest you do it in a way with no identifying features - no face, if you have tattoos, make sure they're not visible, etc. I've seen girls get kicked out of sororities for this kind of thing, and others get an "eh.... we can't PROVE it's her," and I can't even imagine what would happen out in the "Real World" if someone tried to get you in trouble for that kind of thing.
2Yeah I have.
3Probably wont ever again though.
Oh lord...
4yeah.. to my boyfriend of three years over picture message on our phones. Now I'm nervous.. I know he wouldn't show them, but even if they are deleted, could people at the phone company pull them back up? AHHHHH
5I've seen way to many guys in bars passing around their phones showing their buddies naked pictures of girlfriends/etc... Never gonna do it.
6awww i have "sexy" pics lol, not naked ones i send. my bf sends me pics of his dick and stuff tho! so naughty!
7Oh yeah, I also laughingly show off ones which I receive, which would keep me from sending them!
8I haven't done nude pictures (yet) but I have taken sexy pictures and what I do is put them on a photobucket album that only him and I know the password to, I don't keep them saved on the computer nor do I send them over the cell phone or anything like that.
That's the best way to do it. Also I'm married to my man so I don't have to worry about breaking up and having them exposed or anything like that.
9I've done it!
10lingerie without my face showing, yes. nude? no.
11so risky! i wouldn't do it!
12Guys have sent me theirs, but I always make up some lame excuse why I can't haha (like I don't know how to use the camera on my phone or something). So no, I never have. I am pretty modest in general, and I would never want to risk it ever getting passed around. Especially if you are friends with and know the same people, or if you break up, you never know if they would do something like send it to your work/company etc. And I would hate it if I found out the guy had forwarded it to his friends or something.
lol @ the 1st poster... hopefully Vanessa is a good enough example to people of what not to do. It's just a bad idea.
13Being the next "big thing" on the internet is definitely not in my To-Do list!
14I think its disgusting personally, and if anyone I knew has done it? dont tell me or thats an automatic good bye.
I knew a guy who showed everyone his new girlfriend naked on his phone, and I told her when i met her that i didnt recognize her with her clothes on, and she was very upset at him, but I asked her "why" she knew that it was on his phone, and that he is in a band with 5 other guys 24 hours a day in a van, did she think he was going to keep it to himself? any girl in my opinion who thinks its sexy to send nude photos to her boyfriend, should expect no less from him in the tact department.
Just my opinion ladies....
15It's not something I have done or would ever think of doing.
Caterpillargirl posted just one of the many reasons why it ain't happening in my lifetime......
16LoL, taking nude pictures is really risky. Why not just get nakey in the room? Once something goes digital, it can get circulated. Memory cards get stolen, emails get sent by accident, etc...then there's nakey photos of you all over the web, and it hurts job prospects etc... -_- Much like the facebook dilemma.
17No way! I look terrible in photos even with all my clothes on, LOL!
18I have. We've been together for two years, and even if we broke up, we're not complete scumbags. I have his, too. I would never go and like, expose it. That's so lame.
19LOL "nakey"
20I'll admit I sent some lingerie photos to my fiance's phone before we got married, but I KNOW he'd never show them to anyone, he's not into sharing me at all.
21no, i haven't done it and i think i wouldn't. i mean, it's my bf he can have whenever he likes i don't think he needs naked pics of me... besides it'd be kind of embarassing taking me naked pics
22I've done it twice, and I might do it. Second time I did, shortly after the sex pictures, I ended up breaking up with him. Since we were quite serious and I trusted him, I told him to delete every single pictures. When we got back together, I found out that he didn't delete any! Of course, I deleted everything and we broke up after that. So I know that I'd never do it unless I'm engaged or married. Nowadays, it's so easy for information to go around and I don't need to risk anything and have random people see naked pictures of me. Oh, and the guy who didn't delete any picture, while we were dating, he lost his luggage in a cab and ended up losing his hard disk drive which contained his ex fling's naked pictures. Imagine cabbies looking at those pictures and laughing. NO WAY!
23I think it's classless and shortsighted.
Even if you're "engaged or married," you've got about a 50/50 shot of that working out in your favor. When people break up, things get messy. Don't be naive and think "he'd never to that to me."
24I have done it and would never do it again. Even if you totally trust your bf/husband you never really know how they will react if the relationship ends. It's just not worth it to have scandalous pictures of yourself out there, especially on the internet. I do not recommend it.
25I just dont understand why. someone tell me why you would send them.
26I did it! With my bf of 3 1/2 years. It was just my boobs though! LoL! (They're so little anyways) I dont think I would ever show my coochie on a pic! LoL! This is such a funny post and everyone is sooo serious about it. I am not famous (nor do I plan to be) and I actually love my body at the moment. My boyfriend loved it when it had 20 more pounds on it so he can get a sexy pic here and there
We don't get to see one another as much as we used to so the
pics definitely made us more excited about are next visit with one another. It doesn't really matter if I send them to him or not...I have caught him plenty of times taking pics of me
undressing or getting dressed! LoL! He's sneaky! And I know they are for his viewing pleasure only...he's too jealous to show anyone else! LoL! This was an interesting post!
27my bff's daughter found naughty pictures on her phone! Soo embarrassing. I dunno, don't have a problem with it but I feel like the likelihood of it being found is super high, so I wouldn't necessarily do it myself. I won't say never though.
28you know what, I remember now I didn't send them, he took them with his camera phone. So I've never actually sent* them.
29Seriously girls, think about private intimate pictures of yourself being posted all over the internet for your friends, family, co-workers, boss, EVERYONE to see. Think really hard about it before you do it. It may sound like something fun and sexy to do but ask yourself if it's worth it. As someone said above, don't think oh he would never do that to me because he might. When a relationship ends people can get bitter and seek revenge. Don't give them the ammo.
30Guys talk to eachother, they brag, and now there is something solid to show their friends (and whomever else) as to proof of such bragging. This goes for women also. If I had a boyfriend who clicked away as i was getting undressed or dressed, I would be creeped out beyond belief.
31a picture in my swim suit on the beach. that's about as far as i can go. i'm not confident enough to be nakey in a pic. even if i was confident, i'll be scared it would be all over the internet.
32Hell to the naw! I don't want it to bite me in the arse...
33What?! NO. If somebody wants to see me naked, I only do LIVE shows, and pictures don't do me justice
It seems really dumb to me to put things out there that can be available to everyone. Even if I did trust a guy to not share the picture, you just never know. It's really easy to stop though: if there are things that you don't want everyone else to see [nude photos], hear, or know, DON'T PUT IT OUT THERE. Simple.
34No, that's just not me.
35Never ... Too risky ...
36I've considered it when I was in an LDR, but I've never actually done it. I doubt I ever will.
37It doesn't creep me out one bit!
38"If I had a boyfriend who clicked away as i was getting undressed or dressed, I would be creeped out beyond belief."
I'm right there with you. That's some pretty red flag behavior- completely inappropriate.
39yep ive done it and i will do it again if i feel like surprising him or something
40I've done it (I'm in a LDR, that what you do), don't see a problem with it as long as my face isn't visible, and the quality is so low on camera phones there really isn't any way you can tell 100% its me. Before I ever did we laid down ground rules for it though, no sharing, etc. I'm with a very private guy so I'm not worried, and in all truthfulness, I don't really care if they did show up somewhere because I've made sure you can't tell its me.
And I'm generally all for nudity, I have no qualms about it.
41"If I had a boyfriend who clicked away as i was getting undressed or dressed, I would be creeped out beyond belief."
I hope he still finds me sexy after 40 yrs of marriage too! (he better!
)It's the
greatest compliment when the one you love thinks you are sexy and beautiful. That's all I meant by that. We have only been together 3 1/2 years and I hope in our journey together keeping the
spark alive will be a major factor in our relationship. And yes if ever we were to break up and he would sink as low as to post pics on the internet then there would only be one thing left
for me to do...kill him! LoL! Ok, this is my biggest problem with working on a computer all day...I get sucked into these posts! Gotta love it! Have a great day all and Merry Christmas!!!
42guilty! when you're in a long distance relationship sometimes you have to get creative...
43Wow I had no idea this was such a serious issue for some people! It's really not a big deal, well, I guess naked pictures are, but sending sexy pictures of you in cute underwear with some high heels? I don't see how it's tactless. I did it even before I was married to my husband. Like I said, I keep them on a photobucket album that's private so only him and I can see it.
Relax people!
44NEVER you have no idea who might see them!!!!!
45Cherry, so by saying "relax" you are saying we who oppose this are uptight. and I say, its just our opinion....so relax yourself.
46and it was a question about nude pics, not you in underwear and heels.
47totally different things.
48Not all guys are scumbags who share pictures.
Not all guys are clumsy tards who lose their stuff.
Not all guys are too dumb to know computers and have their stuff duplicated without knowing.
But some guys do value privacy and know how to protect it.
49That's the ones you go for and who you can trust.
Who knows, you might actually end up marrying one of them.
Yea, I know my boyfriend would never share. But I'd never send them to him even if I wanted to, because what if his parents or friends accidentally found them on his computer or something? I can trust him but I can't trust every single other person who might be around his stuff.
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