There is nothing better than sharing love and intimacy with another person, which is why so many of us strive to be in a relationship. It's extremely rewarding to love and care for someone else, but it can also be emotionally draining — the constant giving of your time, energy, and affection can really take its toll — which is why it's so important to make time for yourself and do the things that bring you personal satisfaction and joy. So ladies, when you're in a relationship, how do you recharge your energy so that you can feel full enough to give to someone else?









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Gee, I'm in an LDR, so I only wish I saw him enough to be worn out! Normally I'd work out and knit, though.
1Princess_eab, I'm in a long distance relationship too so I feel your pain.
But when I am with him for long periods of time, I go to the gym, read a book, go hang out with my family & friends... but honestly that's rare since we don't get that much time together in the first place.
2me three, as far as the LDR goes.
normally i'd make extra time with friends, read, watch sex & the city.
3When I need some me time, I watch all my girlie shows that my husband can't stand, reread all my favorite books, catch up with my gossip magazines, and make time to hang out with my girlfriends.
4i hangout with a good friend. we talk about everything and relieve whatever stress we have in a humorous way. lol
5when i get too overwhelmed and i need to get away from my perpetual on-again off-again boyfriend i take a weekend trip to my family's cabin in montana on hebgen lake with a couple friends. when leaving we have to scrub the whole place down (family rules) but it's so worth it. it's my escape.
6Swimming. I was a competitive swimmer in high school and my 6 ft 1 boyfriend almost drowned in 4 feet of water ( to this day I still dont know why he just didnt stand up). When I go to the pool I know he wont even dream of tagging along
not to mention water is ultra
calming.
7I can't afford major spa treatments, so as lame as this may sound, I really look forward to getting my eyebrows waxed at this fantastic spa close to my work. The girl who works on me knows my story so she always puts me on the thermal bed so I get a little heat therapy while I'm there
, and gives me a little sinus massage after the waxing. It's a nice little escape and something I can do for myself that my boyfriend will enjoy too (better than Frodo style
eyebrows, anyway haha).
8A weekend dedicated to reading, watching TV and video games!
9well my bf and I don't live together, so I just go home
nonetheless, even if we were
to live together, we both value our own personal time to decompress, so I know we would make it a priority for each other, too
10my fiance and i live together, have for 2 almost 3 years now... I cannot say I ever need to "recharge". We are both very anti social individuals who require copious amounts of personal space... So even if we spend all day in the same house together we actually only spend maybe 3 or 4 h of actual time together.. He's usually doing his thing and i am doing my thing.. Then we go for walks, or watch movies together.. makes the time we do spend together quality, rather then quantity... and also I have stuff to tell him and vice versa since we don't spend every waking moment together
11I like to go ride my horses, or play with my dog, read a book, or go run. I especially like to go do active/social things when I'm doing "me time", just b/c my bf is more of an introvert/non-active person.
12I usually read, watch sappy romantic movies that I have seen a million times, or workout
13Time away, no matter what I'm doing just me and only me is needed.
14I read books, look at movies, listen to music, and go out with my people.
15I watch "terrible" TV shows like Desperate Housewives and The Bachelor. Ok, that last one IS terrible, but it's a guilty pleasure and my boyfriend can't stand it. So I watch it online on my laptop w/ headphones. I also like to go on runs or to the gym - bf always wants to go together, but I don't like the idea of getting out-of-breath and red in front of him when the activity isn't...romantic. Maybe if I changed that attitude I'd actually be more motivated to go... Otherwise, going on trips solo or with girlfriends is always fun.
16I go to the gym!
17I coax him to prepare the meal while I stand leaning over the wall, saying things that stocked up over the past days. He is a better cook and it isn't more relaxing than getting better home-cooked meals with less effort.
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