
Dear E. Jean,
I've received an unusual job offer: boxing ring girl. What do you think? The pay is $1,000 a match, and I could really use it. But I can’t decide if walking around a ring is something I'd look at in a different light if I didn’t need the money. I'd be in a bikini or cutoff t-shirts and what they call "booty shorts." I'm very comfortable with my body, but I don't know how I'd feel with 5,000 men there. — Knock Out
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Knock-Knock Sweetheart,
Did you say . . . riiiiiing girl!? Auntie Eeee is celebrated for her gentility, but if she could grease up like a stick of butter and bump and grind around a ring holding up a card while wearing nothing but her underpants, it might do wonders for her spiritual life.
But $1,000 sounds a bit off. I called the fabled fight promoter Cedric Kushner, CEO of Gotham Boxing Inc. Mr. Kushner said that for local "cup shows," young ladies receive $100-$125 per night and "for the big title bouts at Caesars Palace and Madison Square Garden, the rate is $150-$200." So somebody, my dear, is pulling your booty shorts.
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Well.. that was random.
1LoL
2? Wow. lol.
Be careful!!!
3At local MMA (sometimes they have boxing at these) shows, I think they mostly get whoever says yes, but at some bigger shows, I've seen them use hooters girls and even strippers (that was in Atlantic City).
My bf asks me why I wouldn't do it, and I just tell him that it takes a "special" girl to want to be a ring girl. Think about it.
4Well the fact that they asked you must mean that you are a very attractive girl.
5Men are going to drool over regardless so you might as well make some money off of it. Use your sexual appeal as an advantage rather than a disadvantage.
Or pursue another job like modeling which is not so... slimy.
Leila, things like that are actually really empowering! You get to see the wonderful extreme that female sexuality has and just how silly men get over it. Now if she were being exploited and nude up there, that'd be one thing. But in a bikini or booty shorts? As long as she isn't all touching herself or having others rub on her, then it's just a really fun experience. But when it goes beyond that, that's when it'd take a "special" type.
6so i dont understand, you are unsure because if you didnt need the money and saw a girl doing that you would think she was trashy? If you need the money there are other jobs out there, but if you dont care then do it.
I dont get why this ? is on here?
7so random...i read this in a magazine weeks ago and seeing as the price appears completely off this is kind of irrelevant. i get the point but a more pertinant example might have been better!
8haha- I love that E.Jean focused on the fact that this girl is being hosed. Awesome EJ!
9I find this too amusing to even give a serious answer.
10i'm really confused
11Agreed, Jude C.
12Berlin I agree
My bf would flip if i
was strutting around in a bikini. And I knwo everyone will be like "You're your own person! Do what you want!" But honestly, there are things I don't like him doing and he WONT do it because
of me. So it's a two-way street here.
13I have had so many offerings lately for modeling/promo work but I can't
if its a temp position take it
14Girl we are in a recession u better shake it for a grand!
15sike lol..this is random..i dont really know what to say? If you can treat it like a job and it doesnt matter, then do what you have to do, but listen to Jean ..it seems a bit shady
I think that it depends on how comfortable you are. It does sound a bit shady, but if it's legit, it really depends on how you feel about the whole bit, OP.
16Umm, well I think maybe that IF!! this is a real question, which I doubt, the person who asked the question may be fibbing. She was probably asked to be a stripper or something and wants to be told that she doesn't need to stick to her morals for a thousand bucks a night:)!
Anyway, if it REALLY is about a boxing ring girl.. do you walk around at the beach? Do gross old men stare at you? Well, booty shorts and whatever cover up more than that, and sory but they'll be staring at the boxing right after your little speil is over.
I just don't think this "job" is that degrading, so, I'd do it if I had the body for it:)
17Sounds awesome. Id def do that for 1k a fight. Easy money.
18I'd rather be the boxer. Knowing me, I'd probably be offended.
19True, Mes.
I've been thinking about it, and I think that, considering how much I loathe being stared at anyway, this would definitely not be something I would jump at.
20Nobody's going to be touching you. You're not going to be naked. You're not going to be humping a pole. It's a grand. Take it! (But as E. Jean says, please make sure this is a serious offer and you're not going to end up on a white slave market with a price tag stuck to your nipple.)
21It's a bit disturbing that the money offered her was so off from what the girls are actually paid. Maybe they were expecting something else from her? Doesn't sound like a good idea to me.
22Jude: I loved Sugar Ray Leonard back in the day! My little girl crush! And,I thought I was cool to watch boxing with my uncles (and eat handfuls of chips LOL) Look at Laila Ali. A major badass who inspires me as a woman to go against the grain...so I never envied the 'ring strippers' as we call 'em
23Yeah, I'd also rather throw some punches than prance around being ogled.
24Dolls! OF COURSE the question is "RANDOM." Life, death, food, sex, work, ring girls, and the awesome Dear Sugar (who in real life is GORGEOUS!!!!)....all are random. If you think you can plan anything on this earth and have it come out as you wanted, you are in for some severe disappointments.
Random is good.
25This question could NOT have been better timed! I found myself in this exact same predicament just yesterday.
I think I'll go for it. A thousand bucks? In this economy, I'll take it!
26^ AHAHAHHAHHAHAH
27Berlin - I say that "tongue in cheek". Personally, I don't feel empowered by using my body. Some girls do. . .I get that. I just feel like when women say that they are empowered by using their "female sexuality" they are playing into the system. Just be honest with yourself and say you like the attention and find it good for your self esteem, you know?
28Why don't you try it? Unless you have to sign some contract saying you'll commit to them for a year. $1000/night is a lot of money just to strut around a ring for a few hours. If you don't have any moral qualms about it, why not? Oh, and make sure there's nothing shady going on, because that sure is a lot of money for a few hours' work.
29E Jean, I love you!
30my bf is a mma fighter (not amateur) and at the matches no one even pays attention to the chicks so i don't think you have that much to worry about.
31DO IT!!!! Make sure they won't do anything nasty like pimp you out for after the show or make you sign a contract....but WHY NOT? The first time, make sure you have a big guy friend there to drop you off and pick you up just to be 100% sure of your safety. DO IT!!!!!!!
32Do it! OMG, if that was offered to me I would never had posted this question...I'd be too busy strutting and holding a number. I agree with lilcroat03, in all honesty you will probably be out for0-45 seconds at a time and most (not all) will be more amped up about the fight than your hotness.
I'm all about women doing what they want to do if that's their choice. I'm probably going to get a lot of flack for this but here it goes: I'm all for call girls, strippers, dancers, ring-girls, jello-wrestlers and all other forms of hot female fun in said females have made the choice for themselves and are proud in what they do. I can't stand some (again, not all) "feminists" who said NO woman should exploit their bodies for any reason..but I say if that woman made her choice and stands by it proudly, then she has made HER CHOICE. Isn't that was real feminism is all about? Women making their own choices. Yeah, right now I'm working on losing about 10 more pounds because my goal is to do amateur burlesque for my birthday on a stage. Yep, twirling tassels and all.
Own it girl if you want it. That's my story and I'm sticking to it
33if youre comfortable with your body and can use the money then you aren't really doing anything crazy. i'm sure theres that many guys at the beach when you go in a bathing suit so whats the problem? as long as at the end of the night you know who you are and what you are comfortable with, theres no problem with strutting your stuff for a few minutes for that hefty of a paycheck. have fun with it.
34"please make sure this is a serious offer and you're not going to end up on a white slave market with a price tag stuck to your nipple"
Ha! and yeah, no kidding.
This sounds like one of those things that are too good to be true. Why would someone pay that much for a fight ring girl? Like other people mentioned, the known going rate is not that much, nobody pays enough attention to the girls for it to matter $1000's worth a night, and there are likely plenty of hot women who'd do it for much less, so it just makes no sense as a legit offer.
Hey, we ARE in a recession, the people who organize these things are in it to make as much money for themselves as possible. They're not going to throw bunches of money away on something like paying the ring girl, especially not at a time when all the bosses of the world are tightening their wad and paying their workers as little as possible.
This will either end up ripping you off or putting you in danger, or both. Best case scenario, you'd end up not getting paid that much because they'll tell you they're taking training/wardrobe/makeup fees out of your pay, or whatever (maybe you'll even end up owing them money!) Worst case, you'd end up surrounded by criminals, unable to escape, and forced to do anything they want you to do.
If you must try this (at your own risk), at least use every resource you have to check this thing's legitimacy. Have a contract so everything is in black and white (and read all the fine print). Make sure friends and/or family know where you'll be and when to be concerned if they don't hear from you. Be super careful with anything you drink. And yeah, by all means try and have a friend there looking out for you, though I'd fear if things get ugly your friend might be in danger too.
Normally, I wouldn't think a ring girl gig is such a big deal, but this particular price tag is fishy. Feels to me very much like a twist on the old "modeling career scam" (which is the thing that can end in either of the scenarios I wrote about just now).
I get how it can be tempting, but please, be very careful. Don't get ripped off and be safe out there.
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