Oral on me first...then intercourse.

Then if they are lucky they get oral.
Depends how I like them. lol.

Oral on him, then sex, then oral on me. At least, that's the way it's gone in all my relationships.

Oral is suppose to be a tease or appetizer before the main course...lol

I guess I'm the odd woman out... if I can't sleep with him, then there will be no oral (him or me).

I've never understood the comfort level that's okay with oral sex but not intercourse.

I won't say 'no' to good Oral
Well, with my fiancee, oral on me first then sex..then oral on him comes later on LOL.

Wow, I'm surprised so many people said oral first. It's the opposite for me, intercourse first. I'm not comfortable with someone's face down there right away or near someone else with my face, that's just awkward.
With my bf it was sex, then oral on me, then oral on him...

defenitely intercourse first, i guess i was just from a relly traditional background and i didnt feel comfortable with it at first, but of course now they both are really good!

Oral for me first. It's usually a prelude to tell the type of lover the guy will be.

Oral... mainly because I was a technical virgin until age 22 so did "everything but". I'm really into foreplay for that reason.

I'm with princess_eab.

I have never understood how it is possible to give oral to a woman RIGHT AFTER intercourse...it would just feel yucky and spermy down there so I wouldn't be comfortable with a guy tasting me right after

I voted oral first-for HIM though, not me. To warm him up. Then sex, then later on down the line he can give me oral. I'm shy about letting a guy go down there. Sex has always been a lot easier for me.!

In our relationship it was oral on him, then later oral on me, and finally intercourse.

For us oral is like the bread and sex is like the meat... start off with oral add the sex and top it off with oral. It make's everyone happier that way. And is this gross, but I like how umm it tastes different after intercourse... You know the exchange of liquids okay it sounds gross when you say it out loud haha

Oh I was trying to say its like a sandwich! And who doesn't love a sandwich?

I have a jaw problem and can't give head, so sex is definitely first haha.

Giving bjs is so fun so that's always first.

for me, it was oral then intercourse. we waited until we were married for both...so that was a fun-filled first night!

I'm the same as princess_eab, my boyfriend and I waited for several years before we had sex for the first time. I offered oral pretty early on. Probably like 2-3 months in.

exchanging names and saying hello comes first
=)

I didn't used to like giving oral before my current boyfriend, so I actually go sex first, oral second, because I have to really, really dig the guy to go down haha.

i like oral first, then sex. however, i won't say no to either at almost any time.

I've only been sexual with one partner so far. With him, intercourse was first. Then oral sex on me. Then oral sex on him.

Intercourse. To me , oral is much more personal and I am more comfortable with it later on when you know the person better.

Intercourse first. Like luvfury said there is something more personal and intimate about oral that makes me hesitant to do it to someone I don't know that well.

Oral on me first as foreplay, sex, and oral on him later on some other day.

Oral is part of the foreplay, which then leads to the hot and heavy sex. I'm personally not fussed if he goes down on me, it doesn't do much for me in the arousal area, I just feel awkward, I'm more of a hard slapping penetration sort of girl which makes me go off.

I will be a giver but I am not a fan of recieving it until I am SUPER comfortable with the person. I love just normal sex anyways so i am fine with that until I am ready to spead them lol.

Intercourse first. Oral is very personal and I now only do it to someone I really like. Out of my four relationships I have only been talked into having oral on me in my last one. He like doing it enough that he insisted. I love it now, but I'm still really shy. I guess I'll have to see how it pans out in my next relationship. They're all different.

I think what Dear meant was, in the relationship what comes after kissing and heavy petting not what order do you like things to occur in a love making session. For me, in a relationship after the initial make out phase sex comes next then oral. Sex is obviously personal but oral is way more personal so that always comes after the first sexual encounter for me. Once I've gotten to know the person well then I definitely vote for oral then sex during the same sexual encounter because oral after sex is just messy.

After heavy makin out, its oral on him ... and then oral on me if he insists (except i am not usually very comfortable with it)
and then intercourse ...
I was surprised to learn how many women share the same opinions about being comfortable giving oral but not receiving it ... glad to learn that I am not the only one ...

Guess I am the minority- I find oral really intimate and truly requires unselfishness on both sides. I would rather have intercourse first and be comfortable before I did that.

lol wow, I'm surprised by the amount of intercourse first on here.

you know I have found this varies by culture . . in the US oral is not as big a deal, and a girl might have even done that many times before losing her virginity.

Where I grew up it's the opposite and oral is a much more intimate thing - couples might have been sleeping together for a while and still not done that. I know some people who save it for marriage.

I can see both sides actually . . . I feel like oral does require a lot of intimacy to do well, and to feel comfortable with. However intercourse is more invasive, I guess, so some people would feel more comfortable with the former.

oral first.. i need to be warmed up a bit before i go staright into intercourse

I'm with starangel82. I find oral much more intimate and only choose to do so with people I've dated for quite some time. I find sex to be less intimate if it's just someone I'm "dating."

I guess my current relationship was kind of odd... We definitely had sex before oral, but it always goes the other way for me. But maybe there's something to be said for doing it this way- this has been my healthiest and longest relationship!

With my current boyfriend I gave him oral first and then we had intercourse like straight after... but we've known each other and been good friends for a long time now so we were already emotionally intimate.

Usually they don't get oral til they prove themselves to me. My ex got like 2 blowjobs in 1.5 years so I don't give it out easily. ;p

okay...when we started dating...i gave him blowjobs for a while...then we moved to intercourse. its just how it progessed in our relationship.

Oral needs to come before all the juices have been spilled, if you catch my drift. It's to help move things along, and get you even more worked up before the home run.

In my current relationship for the past 8 1/2 months it was the first time I had sex. I had sex with him wayyyy (read: 2 months) before he gave me oral sex and way way way (read: 7 1/2 months) before i gave him oral sex. I find oral sex to be extremely personal...

also, apparently people can't read and are NOT understanding the question posed...

NOW THAT I HAVE MY LOVE BY MY SIDE I SEE I DID THINGS ACCORDING TO THE PASSION AND FIRE BETWEEN US AS TO WHAT CAME FIRST...I NEVER DID ORAL FIRST IN ANY OF MY RELATIONSHIPS UNTIL MY LOVE CAME ALONG...I MAINLY RECEIVED ORAL THEN HAD INTERCOURSE AND I MIGHT GIVE ORAL AFTER A FEW SESSIONS..SOMETIMES I ONLY HAD INTERCOURSE BUT THAT BEING KINDA BORING AFTER A WHILE THE RELATIONSHIP DID NOT LAST..

Oral sex is very intimate, and can have that vibe of "dominance" : you, on your knees, with the guy's thing in your mouth... you better love and respect me before I give that to you. Not that I give sex away to anyone - LOL; but at least I get my rocks off too.
As for me, I've only met one guy who knew how to do it properly - my BF. So most of my exes, I'd just wave away from down there!

I dont belive in oraling until you love me..sex is sex and protected but nomally oral is bare and to be honest..unless i know you well enought to sleep with you without a condom you aint going near my thing or me near your thing...

DO you know how many things you can get!? If a man goes down on you and had bleeding gums, or a cold sore...anything he has you get.. some women are far to casual for their own good.

Most of the time for me it's oral first

Intercourse first. Oral is waaay more intimate/requiring of trust - and if the mister even tries to push/hold my head down, there are no more BJs until he learns better.

LOL! why would someone feel uncomfy with doing oral with just anyone but having sex is fine? oral isnt personal. intercourse is! what kind of person would let just any guy in there? EWW!!