Probably showering. I LOLed at the HIMYM episode where Lilly and Marshall had never gone to the bathroom in front of each other and Marshall says "but you fart in front of my all the time!" and Lilly says "yeah but I try to cover it with a cough!" so cute

For me, it's probably passing gas but it's mostly because I don't like sharing my shower time. I don't want to share the water stream, I don't like maneuvering around someone else, and I don't want to hear someone complain about how hot I like my water (which is realllllly hot). It's just my designated ME time.

other--he farted in front of me first, then we showered together, but i still haven't farted in front of him. it's about 7 months in, so i'm sure it's bound to happen eventually, but hopefully not for a very long time!

What came first: Picking your nose in front of him or doing it doggy style?

Weird questions.

farting. I really had to fart and was getting a stomach ache so I told him and he farted so that I would feel more comfortable. how sweet! lol. we showered together about half a year after that.

I've heard of women who've been married for 15, 20 years and never farted in front of their husbands. Hopefully I'll be one of them. I can't believe you even asked this, DS! Who the hell prefers farting in front of their loved one rather than showering with them?

Umm totally agree with Lyv

totally the shower together!God I could never fart in front of a guy I'm interested in. The first shower I took with my guy wasn't as sexy as we imagined... I was down on my knees in the shower giving him "pleasure" and then he accidently moved to the side and I got splashed by the shower stream in the face... well not splash but more like rushing down on me! But we just laughed it off.

And one day my guy woke up and went to the bathroom to take his usual morning shower. So I thought I'd surprise him and walk in there and get in the shower with him. I heard water running so I open the door a little. He was taking a poo on the toilet! He closed that door so quickly! Apparently that running water sound was the facet and think it was his was to mask the act. Needless to say we didn't take that mutual shower that day!

perfectscore...i love the poop story, i actually laughed out loud....

and the same thing happened to me with the rushing water...

we havent showered in a few weeks because of christmas holidays and such but tomorrow...i cant waittt

also lol-ed at bluestar...hehe

we've been dating over 2 years and i refuse to fart around him... we just don't do that.

karlorene... you just dont fart?

Farting came first. It was like the second time we were hanging out and he was tickling me and I farted REALLY loud. IT was absolutely hysterical. And I had a bf that I didn't fart in front of for 3 years. ANd I fart in front of my current bf ALL the time and it's just funny. Now I can't believe I was with someone that I couldn't be completely comfortable and myself around. Showering together can be nice, but I agree with mondaymoos that maneuvering is annoying, water temperatures are different, and sex is difficult...plus it is my time to relax and gather my thoughts/de-stress.

I could care less if he farted. He can fart on the first date for all I care, its natural. For myself, I just don't like to pass gas infront of anyone, wether it be a friend, boyfriend, family member.. I'm weird like that. So I will go with Shower first.

We don't care about farting in front of each other. The man's seen me give birth for God's sake!

Shower first... it was a while before the farting in front of each other happened.

Married for 6 months, and the hubby just told me the other day that he's never heard me fart! Lucky for me, his bad hearing keeps up my 'feminine mystique'.

I've passed gas while i was with my boyfriend. We were having sex and it kinda seeped out. Haven't showered together yet.

Yes, i shower with whoever im dating after a few weeks of knowing them.

I said shower for me ... but I remember he tooted the first time we were in the shower. I think he tried to play it off ... but I remembered and brought it up once as one of the really funny moments in our relationship.

I've been living with my bf for 5 years and we've never farted in front of each other.

As for showering, that happened a few weeks after we met.

i said shower, but i remember the first time he tooted in front of me. We were in bed and he sneezed and farted. It was a total "oops!"

The showering part came so easily.

HEHEHE. My fiancee farted first, and of course, he blamed the cat. Then the next time, he did apologize for farting which I didn't even care about since we're comfortable with each other. He's embarrassed about that sort of thing until this day, and as for showering, we tried the showering thing, can't fit in the shower comfortably enough since he's a big tall dude.
As for me, yeah, I never farted in front of him when I was awake, but he told me that he'd heard me fart when I was asleep. EEEEK. I didn't know that I did that!

We showered first. Wow, I'm impressed by the girls who've been together with their guys five years and not farted in front of them. When I first started dating my husband, I would hold them in my desperate attempt to be cute and modest, and then (much to my embarassment when he told me) I'd apparently let em' rip in my sleep. My husband took to calling me Sleeping Pooty. Let that serve as a lesson not to hold them in too much--you never know when they'll come out .

Now I'm pregnant, so I feel as though I have an excuse.

I let out a fart before I showered with him. We're both pretty gross when it comes to gas, we always try and outdo one another with burps and farts.

passing gas. i want to be completely comfortable with someone before doing something intimate like taking a shower together.

Ack! Shower, shower, shower first!

However if we did fart in front of one another, so be it... it was bound to happen sooner or later.

Oh god, shower!!! We've been together 3 years, and he's probably heard me fart twice! (Unlike him, who farts about twice every 10 minutes. I found a gasser!)

Definitely shower. He farts in front of me and used to think it was cute to hold me and let them go til I knocked the hell out of him trying to escape.

But I don't like to just let them go sitting beside him on the couch or trapped in the car, and I don't appreciate when someone does that to me either. Just go in another room!!

SHOWER! we would never intentionally fart in front of each other. that's totally gross and unnecessary.

Neither yet. We've been dating for almost a year now. He sometimes wants to take shower together. We don't mind watching each other taking shower and keeping company, but as someone else have said, I like my water burning hot. I know I'll fart one day in front of him, but I'm trying hard not to. lol

Well, since we have been dating for over 3 years and have been living together for most of that time, we've done both around each other. I try not to, but sometimes when you are laying in bed and about to fall asleep, it just isn't worth getting up to fart in the bathroom, lol!

Showering. 'Being completely comfortable' around someone doesn't mean that you have to be gross in front of them. I think a lot of people use the "comfortable" excuse so they can be lazy and give up trying for their significant other.

We were friends first, and he farted in front of me before we even started dating. We showered together VERY early in our relationship, so I probably farted after that.

But now we play the fart game. I fart on hm all the time and do the dutch oven, etc.

I can't believe so many of you don't want to fart in front of your guys. Isn't that the beauty of the LTR? That you can relax and be yourself and not have to pretend to powder your nose every time you let one fly?

Passing the Gas comes first, and I dont shower with my guy, there is never any room.

at Bluestar.
Hit Nail on Head!

Showering first! I LOVE showering together

But we definatly fart in front of each other too I mean come on it's been two years! My bf is so gross about it too! Ewww he even goes out of his way to FART ON ME! Sicko

I can't remember which came first but it was probably farting. I don't see the big deal; it's like burping, no one means to do it. Farts happen and then they go away. Say "Excuse me" and move on. Not very polite but not the end of the world. It's not like I was pooping all over the place.

I wish showering together worked for us, but there's never enough room and it's not very sexy.

likethedirection - AGREE
whiplash - completley DISAGREE

why fart in front of someone? it's totally rude. especially intentionally. i try to act like a lady around everyone. i dont' see why you would do something like that to anyone if you weren't a 12 year old boy, let alone to someone you are romantically linked with. comfort isn't license to be completely revolting. i feel bad for your boyfriend.

I really don't think this is an issue to be so judgemental abou ski. To each their own. If you don't fart then that's fine, but that doesn't mean others can't do it. Maybe her bf likes it?

I feel bad for your boyfriend, skigurl. Must be tough to be in a relationship with someone so judgmental.

My ex never had any problem farting in front of me from day one. After about four or five months into our relationship we started showering together. Not long after that I farted in front of him, but only because I couldn't hold it in. I usually find it disrespectful and gross to fart in front of someone (even though he did it all the time), so thankfully it was a one time thing.

My bf and I showered together very early on in our relationship. Our showers together though are completely PG rated (minus the nudity). We just like having someone to wash each others back.

Both happened in the same day for us.

And skigurl, I don't understand why you have to be so harsh and assume that those of us who fart in front of our men cannot act like ladies. You're, as sexylibrarian and whiplash has stated before me, judgmental. Besides, a true lady would never act in such a harshly judgmental way. Go back and watch Katherine Hepburn. When she's offended, she never comes out and blasts anyone, she gently nudges them to what they should be doing. Since she’s actually a lady, maybe you should take some notes from her.

Showering for sure! May not be the most convenient shower, but if I'm showering with my man I'm not worried about my own space, know what I mean?

As for farting, as a general rule I try to avoid obvious farting around ALL people. Because it is gross. but i ESPECIALLY avoid doing it around people that I want to do me later. Even if I know he loves me, a fart is a fart.

I'm prety much the most open person ever and when im comfortable around people i can fart and burp and not care, so generally farting, besides i have digestion problems and organ problems so i'm almost always gassy (i always look bloated... which sucks).. meh whatevz

i think we showered together first...i didnt fart in front of him for close to a year but now (we've been together almost five) i dont think twice about it. i dont think farting in front of someone means you arent trying , i still look good!

I cant even remember. For awhile I was like some of the ladies here. I didnt want to fart around him. Im sure it slipped once though and since then i dont care. the fact that i can be comfortable around him enough to be myself is awesome. If he can love me thru the gross times we can make anything haha. But both were at least 7 months after we started dating since we were seperated by the war.

Showering definitely. It took me a while to feel comfortable enough to toot in front of him, and he still feels weird about it.