Bachelor parties were made for boys to be boys, a time for friends to party it up one last time before sending off one of their own to wedding bliss. Most of the time, men use this opportunity to revert back to their wild and crazy years of bachelorhood, most often being more outrageous than ever before. While we think we know what goes on during those male weekends away, the guys tend to abide by a code of secrecy.
So ladies, do you think it is a good idea or a bad idea to ask what really happened at your fiancé’s bachelor party? Do you even really want to know?
Gambini
Arizona
Mothercare
It's a difficult choice, my husband told the truth about a year later w/o my asking but I was humiliated because he gave it away front of a bunch of my friends. I never wanted to know, but face the facts you'll hear snippets at some point.
1I want to know!
2This is tough. Part of me trusts him - the other part wants to know...
3I was going to say the same thing pinupssweetheart
4Nah, he would either be embarrassed, but more likely feel bad for the poor girl. I voted for wanting to know just because I'm sure it would be a good story.
5Other: It's none of my business, I won't be telling him all about my bachelorette party.
6I agree with Stefa. If you trust the person you're marrying, you don't have to worry that he cheated. But I'm sure they get wild and I wouldn't want to know every detail of that anymore than he'd want to know about you licking whipping cream off a stripper.
7I watched a documentary about this recently and sorry girls some men go all the way that night. If you can live with that, then that's cool. None of them saw the girl they went with again though. I am very sorry about the bad news but drinks can lower your judgement.
8From my understanding it's the friends that encourage the man to go all the way with a hot babe. The question is can you trust your boyfriend's friends? And do you mind he does go all the way with a hot chick? It's up to the individual.
9No....I trust him so i didn't feel the need to ask,(there were no strippers at his party) but he ended up telling me anyway.
10i'm not telling him about my party, so i don't want to know about his.
11In reference to what andaman was talking about, I personally would be pissed if my fiance/husband had sex with another woman during his bachelor party. I don't plan on having sex with another guy for my bachelorette party. And I would feel sorry for the bride whose husband DID have an actual "fling before the ring." What is that about? I think it's childish. Anyway, I would want to know what went down. Honesty is very important in relationships and if you can't keep it in your pants, regardless of situation and who you are with, then you can't keep it in your pants period.
12well i know that my brothers are pretty wild and they would foist drinks and strippers on my boyfriend but i know that they wouldn't let him cheat on me. they are too overprotective of me to let that happen AND let me marry him! so yes, i know it would get rowdy but i know it wouldn't go too far. (at least i hope so!)
in either case, that's just a very big hypothetical b/c my boyfriend and i aren't even engaged! lol...
13I wouldn't care either way, if he wanted to tell me he could, but if not I wouldn't ask. I wouldn't be too worried, I trust him and his friends, plus if we were to get married my brother would be there and he would NEVER let my bf cheat on me, let alone encourage it.
14I trust him so I wouldn't need to know everything that went down. The only thing I'd need to know is if it went too far and he slept with her or other sexual acts. I don't believe in the "I was drunk" excuse all alcohol does is lower your inhibitions to allow you to do something you wanted to do all along.
15What you don't know wont hurt you!
16Would NOT want to know!! Its not about trust, its about knowing how dumb guys can be!
17I think jaxon has a good point there. I wouldn't ask but don't ask me about mine either. I would not sleep with a hot guy but I might kiss him. That's just me being honest. I wouldn't wannt to hurt the one I love.
18I agree with Jaxon and Laurie06!
19I saw some photos not long ago of a certain persons bucks party. If the bride ever saw them, the sh*t would hit the fan! The fake blonde wh*re stripper was preforming oral sex on the groom, then she removed her panties, hopped on top and helped herself! NO CONDOM! I wonder how the groom is going to explain it to his bride when she gets a horrible disease or even worse..a DEATH SENTANCE!
20I'd definitely want to know. It's not about him it's about his friends. I don't want the guy who hired a stripper trying to act nice to me later. Like the friends who said I was probably cheating trying to act nice.
I know my guy better than to think he'd do something, but some of his friends aren't exactly friends.
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