I met my first love when I was very young and I thought he was the most beautiful person I'd ever seen. We dated for years — he was my best friend and my lover. Two years ago we had an extremely difficult breakup. Ever since, I occasionally cry in bed thinking about him, but we haven't been in touch since the split. I still love him dearly, and I know I'll never be able to love anyone as much I loved him, although I'm currently in a new relationship.

A couple of days ago, out of curiosity and boredom, I started looking for him online. I came across a website of someone he's close with and was able to find a few of pictures of him. To my surprise, I could hardly recognize him. He had always been on the slender side, but he seemed to have gained an enormous amount of weight. Since then, I am so worried for him that I constantly go back to that website to take another look at those pictures of him. I am concerned for his health and curious to know what caused this massive change. If I try to get in touch with him, I know we will end up getting back together but I can't bear to go through what we went through before our breakup again. I just don't know what to do. Should I leave him alone or reach out to him?

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