Definitely NOT "lucky" in this area of my life!

I'm not entirely sure that finding the "right" person is a matter of luck, though. That's just me, though.

I would consider myself very lucky in love.

Unfortunately, I think I may have just recently used up all my luck and may have moved on over to the unlucky side.

We shall see.

Yep we are solid

Very much so (knock on wood), especially in the sense that I've never run into those guys you hear about who have commitment issues and fidelity issues.

No, not so lucky. I think my luck is about to change though.

I have had luck but also bad luck. so yeah...

I've had a mixture of both..the bad luck in necessary sometimes to realize how lucky you are when the good things do come

i feel really lucky now, and i've had some good times, but it always seems like i get screwed when it comes to timing, jobs, school, people moving etc.

but i think i have the potential to live happily ever after. fingers crossed!

i feel really lucky now, and i've had some good times, but it always seems like i get screwed when it comes to timing, jobs, school, people moving etc.

but i think i have the potential to live happily ever after. fingers crossed!

Ugh...bad timing for this poll. That aspect of my life sucks right now. Just when things were going good...they took a turn for the worst it seems!

okay why why why is it that everytime i post, it goes up two times?

As i've been telling someone on my Guestbook, the fattest man in the world is now married and is probably getting laid too. I'm so screwed, i can't even bump into a man.

Overall, yes. Too lucky, if you ask some.

meh, I've had both.

No... because I end up hating everyone I date within a week or two.

LOL @ RockAndRepublic

yes - all the guys I've been involved with have been great individuals that I've enjoyed spending time with and the experiences have left me a more interesting and well rounded person.

I consider myself unlucky. Most of the time, something almost happens, but then it doesn't. Then, one time it did happen, and it was long distance. After the long distance relationship, I can't seem to get "almosts." I think meeting guys in college is hard.

I definitely haven't met that special someone. I have met some really nice guys, but none I want to have a serious relationship with. Hopefully, the right one comes along someday.

Oh so lucky

Yes, thankfully, I've only had encounters with nice and sweet and caring guys, which are the kind you want to end up with

Yes and no. I didn't have any luck up until college, but now I'm so, so lucky to have such a wonderful boyfriend.

Yes, though if you'd asked me five years ago the answer would have been emphatically NO. I really believe we make our own luck in love. It's all about choices...

pffft...the poster girl of lucky in love for certain... o-k.

I don't believe in luck in relation to love. All things happen for a reason and within reason. The bad were lessons and the good were rewards for knowing myself better.
I feel fortunate right now to not be in a relationship at all.

"I really believe we make our own luck in love. It's all about choices..."

Yeah, I was just thinking that as well.

Been in both... now getting divorced, but not regretful of the years we had together... only regretful we let the past couple years go on as they did.
I concur with Mesayme - you are SUCH a wise, wise one!

yes i like do think that i am lucky in love. i had my fair share of bad boyfriends, but i think that i did learn something from everyone and i was happy - and now i've found the love of my life.

I forgot to say...I think Jen is such a sweetheart and I think Brad is such an arse for leaving her...good riddance Jen you can do better than that beachbum anyway!

I have been unlucky in love, but have learned from every experience... of course, at the time, I didn't realize I was learning, I was just heartbroken!

I think the really unlucky people are the ones that have lost hope that they will find the one person who is right for them. Dating/loving the wrong people after a time teaches you what you want and will lead you on the road to the right person. You just have to retain that hope that it will happen.

Or...you can accept that not everyone will have a 'great' love. My aunt had the 'great' love. My uncle. He died at 29. She remarried because she couldn't bear to be alone with several children but she'll tell you in a heartbeat that he's not her 'great' love and she's not happy, just settled.

I won't settle. I accept being alone and with that I'm content and peaceful about it.

blessed.

It's not so much being lucky as it is being perceptive. Some girls change boyfriends like they change their underwear, but I've only had a few relationships because I know how to filter out who isn't right for me. I just flat out don't go for the guys who seem cocky or closed up from the get-go, because a lot of the time it's a sign of insecurity. Insecurity leads one to be jealous, needy, defensive and a whole multitude of behaviors that are a recipe for disaster. Whatever you do ladies, don't settle!

Whoa, after I cast my vote the tally was exactly 50% to 50%. Spooky!

Yea I'm going to go ahead and say No. I can't say I've ever had any luck in love. I've never been in love or have even come close.

Unlucky, Unlucky, Unlucky, Unlucky. Men just don't like me, and the ones that do are the ones I have no interest in.

I would say that no, I'm not all that lucky.

No matter how hard I try to keep my relationships together they almost all have lasted 1.5 years. To the day almost! it's really odd.

Hopefully my luck will pick up soon though!

nope

"I really believe we make our own luck in love. It's all about choices..."

Hmmm yes and no. I think there's definitely a chance issue about who you meet (or don't meet).

"I think there's definitely a chance issue about who you meet (or don't meet)."

I agree with that, Advah, but maybe she meant that we all have a choice of to whom we give the time of day?

No I always met bad boy.so now i have say to my self I will live alone. But I have do how I really love

what's up with her giant arm? weird angle i think

yeah, my guy loves me like hell. and cares about me a lot too. i know that he wouldnt even look at another girl. but, more than anything, he hurt me. im not sure if im IN love with him but i do love him. get the difference? i love my mom but im not IN love with her.

im blessed with a guy who loves me. but ive gotten hurt more than being happy. i dont know whether i should consider myself lucky or not. i am still with him, and hopefully will be.