Um... I voted yes. It kind of does. Skill and communication matter more, but I think it still matters... but it's not a dealbreaker or anything...

yes and no. Ive had sex with a guy before that was so small, I literally couldnt feel it. Not good. But, being too big can be kinda painful. Also, if you are bigger but have no skill then it doesnt matter how big you are, I still just want it to be over.

Size matters in that if it's too big, it hurts but if it's too small it cant satisfy you. Women who say that size doesnt matter are totally lying!

Also, thickness is way more important then length because women only have a few inches of space anyways so if it's too long it just stabs your cervix, which sucks.

My man is just a touch too long but the perfect thickness. Yumm

My ex's was small and narrow. Not good.

My fiance's is average length but thick. Awesome.

(He'd kill me if he found out I was sharing this haha!)

size does matter I dont care what anyone says.
it matters!

It does matter. A lot.

Size definitely matters. Sorry, guys.

kas: It does? LOL.

If it's big but you don't know how to use it i.e a la Sarah Palin "Drill, Baby, Drill"(think jack rabbit sex) then no...it doesn't matter.

It depends I mean if the guys is hung like a elephant? it matters. If he is hung like a peanut? it matters....other than that you can always work with it!

Fallen, I totally agree on the thickness.

My ex was long but thin and it totally hurt.
My bf is think and long.
Sometimes It does hurt. and even at times, I feel like I get so sore.
Can anyone relate?

but yeah it matters!!

I meant thick!

Hung like a peanut! Peanuts...elephants!

Nobody wants something the size of an infant's pinky finger, but I don't think something that would make a stallion insecure is necessary either.

The first guy I was ever with was peanut guy and I didn't even know anything was happening. Then the second guy was average and I thought it would be okay cause I wasn't a virgin. Hurt like heck but after the initial pain, much much better than what I was working with before.

I haven't been with that many guys since those initial two, but enough to know that when it is really teeny tiny, it is barely worth shaving your legs for.

Aww, that sucks about your first time, Kas

You know what scares me? Those giant penis guys you see in porn. I always wonder, "Who really wants THAT inside them?"

The worst part about it, Jude is that I dated him for a year when I was too young to know any better. I just thought that all sex was that boring.

I know what you are saying about porno guys. That just looks painful.

I keep picturing a peanut where the guy's junk should be now!

Kas, at least you know better now!

I have had a really BIG Guy and he was in porn!!!!

it was horrific!!!

I didn't know how it was gonna fit in there. lol.
But it did, but only 3 times. It was only missionary though.

But yeah it was weird. I rather stick to a 7 incher. lol.

Girth much more important than length and neither extreme of size is desirable. Most guys are average and so it's ability and skill that separates the men from the boys.

What really annoys me is when a guy is big, he is so proud of it and thinks that's all you need, just stick it in and you'll immediately come. No skill or finesse required. THAT is a myth.

It's like when guys say that really hot girls often make the worst lovers, because they think all they have to do is show up and the guy will have the best sex of his life. NOT SO.

sex isnt important to me, i know, im an alien. Therefore, i said no.

i don't really think it matters. been with both big and small, it really depends if you know how to work what you have.

"I haven't been with that many guys since those initial two, but enough to know that when it is really teeny tiny, it is barely worth shaving your legs for."

!!!

Haha all the more reason not to wait before marriage. What if you had married peanut guy? How is a virgin supposed to know this information. I'm much more of an external person so I said other.

"How is a virgin supposed to know this information."

Hahaha. Uh...I dunno?

I don't know whats avg bt i think my guy is the perfect size for me. I don't think he's really big bt if he was any bigger i wouldn't want it.(too painful) So I shoulda pt it does matter. O well. lol

lauraxtc, I can definitely relate. My boyfriend is very well endowed and even after 2 years together I am still sometimes very sore. I even asked my gyn if it was normal and she told me that, upon inspection, I had a "shallow vagina" and it would just have to get used to it. That, plus me being nervous for about the whole first year that it would hurt made for quite painful sexual experiences. Thank god I've learned to relax, but still, sometimes he has just too much stamina and I still get sore.

So yes in that respect I think size matters.
But it also depends on if you know how to work with your equipment, in which case, size does not matter.

Ok, I literally just took out a tissue to wipe tears of laughter at some of the comments here. Thank you so much for making my evening!

IT MATTERS A LOT. And for those who say "it depends", the fact that "it depends" means it matters... if whether it matters depends on size, then SIZE MATTERS!

With me size doesn't matter......you could be huge but if you don't know how to get me hoppin' I ain't interested. The guys that know fore play.....uhhuh those are my guys.

My BF now is above average and a good size for me, if not a little too big. I occasionally suffer the cervix issue as previously mentioned.

I couldn't go any bigger without it being painful. And a peanut doesn't sound appealing at all either. So I guess size does matter.

And wouldn't you feel bad for a guy getting undressed in front of a new girlfriend for the first time and he just knows he has a tiny dick? I would think he'd be embarrassed every time. It would be awful.

^^

Wouldn't that be the guy who strips really quickly and doesn't want the lights on?

My ex was long and skinny ouch... My hubby is average length with thick circumfrence and soooo in tune..

"Its not the size of the boat..."

Ooh, long and skinny sounds unpleasant.

Ew.

SweetSarah: Yeah, gotta have the foreplay. Alot of guys with huge dicks feel like they don't have to try because...they have a big dick. Sorry, dude....there's no compensation when it comes to foreplay.

Absolutely indie, nothing makes up for good foreplay. My first bf taught me how to be a good lesbian .

Haha...good for you, Jessie!

lol wow is split in half!

First of all, I do find more pleasure with a bigger guy..but not HUGE. I have been with an ex who was just too big...we couldn't do certain positions because he as too big.

My bf right now is perfect girth and length wise...definatly a little bigger than your average guy, but not super huge that it would hurt me everytime. Once in a while I still do get sore though

Yes it matters, but like other people said, it is not the only thing that matters. My ex was on the small side and it was not as satisfying was being with an average size guy. However, he made up for it with other skills.

my exbf was long and skinny.. it wasn't pleasent the current bf is shorter but thicker, much better

oh... and did i mention the current bf is much more skilled in foreplay?

Anyone else notice that everyone's ex was either a peanut or not thick enough while everyone's current BF is the perfect size? I mean seriously!

It matters when you suddenly meet the guy with the perfect size and shape, and however many fights you get into, you know you ain't going anywhere because it's just so good. Thank you God!

I've had too big and I've had too small. I've even had a guy whom I could not feel at all - and he was a gorgeous sexy rock-hard-bodied Spaniard - what a waste! No girl likes to feel like an Olympic size swimming pool. Or like her insides are being ripped open by a tree trunk.

There's a wide acceptable range, but tiny and huge for those of us who get off on penetration really won't do it. So yep, size matters!

It matters. I'm not happy unless it's big... like 8" or more. End of story.

Jmartens, I guess it means we keep dumping the guys with the wrong size until we find the one with the perfect schlong. See my comment - I ain't letting go of MINE! Good for us, is what I say. Keep looking - there are peanuts for every size jar out there...

Another interesting poll would be about curvature. Do you like them better straight or looking to the side?

Size totally matters but it also has to do with FIT, if you know what I mean...big isn't always best, when i look at porn (not that i ever do, just did it once by accident!) I think "ouch", and a guy with a big penis could be like one of those really pretty girls who think it's enough to just be really pretty and naked and they're honoring you with just their presence and so they lie there (or just drill baby drill)...and they're kind of lousy...

when i truly crave a guy I crave all of him, so there's the whole picture not just that tiny part of it, and if i'm craving him it's because he is wise in the ways of my body, if you know what I mean, and so obviously he knows what to do with what he has, which frankly i wish my current boyfriend would give a lot more thought to...! so in that situation i don't even think about size. smaller can be a GOOD thing for me because i find other things much more enjoyable to do! and i really like it when I like to do them!

curvature? if i'm actually in love with the guy i wouldn't notice or care. or else i'd find it totally adorable or something.

Not too big and not too small!
My boyfriend is 7" and that can hurt sometimes. Other times it's great though.
Odd that size should matter so much when the average vagina is only 4" long...

Most dudes are average and I think that's all that's necessary. A big dick is just a bonus.

Having a tiny dick is just an unfortunate thing, like uuuh.... having.... uuuuh... um.

YES! it matters!