I'm always feeling torn between my girlfriends and my boyfriend. For example, tonight my friends are going to another friend's house for a Halloween party. I would really like to see everyone, but my boyfriend hates the host. I know he doesn't want to go, and I don't want to force him to, but then I feel like I'm choosing my boyfriend over my girlfriends. I haven't seen my friends in a couple of weeks, but in all honesty, I would much prefer to hang out with my boyfriend watching bad horror movies!
Most of the time I choose my boyfriend over them and I feel extremely guilty about it. I'm actually worried that they assume he's a horrible and controlling boyfriend. I love him and I know that's all that matters, but I love my friends too. How can I create a healthy balance between the two?
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