You cheated on your husband four times in a week? UHM.. okay?

what's to forgive about this? she had a record number of partners in a short period of time for no apparent reason, and she's a big giant cheater. i'm not proud of her because she used protection and because the guys she did were hotter than she is. she's a skank for no real reason and is proud of it and wishes to be able to brag. highly questionnable behaviour.

Damn!!! I was going to say thats cool..you were well protected and everyone is entitled to their fun...until you said the part about the husband..yikes!

Now I don't feel so bad anymore.

skigurl I agree...
you're a giant skank and proud of it... thats unforgiveable, no matter how many condoms you use... I hope your husband finds out and leaves your loser ass

four guys in one week!? what was it. mon, wed, fri and sat. And your MARRIED!!!! insane! Good you used protection because if you would caught some hippie jeebies you probably would of passed it to the one person who has been faithful YOUR HUSBAND!!!!! Women like you give bad names to the ones that are actually faithful!

skank.

Slut.

YOUR MARRIED........ WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU THINKING??!! If I was your mate and found out through one of the other men then you would really have a situation on your hands! How can you sleep with 4 men in one week! Don't you know what people call women like YOU....

While I picked Not Forgive, because I find cheating of any kind reprehensible, I think it's really wrong that so many people on here are calling her names like slut and skank. I think it is never acceptable to judge other people in the way that you guys are. She's obviously seriously misguided and needs some help, but there is nothing constructive or helpful about name calling.

To me, cheating is one of the most unforgivable acts. Not to mention cheating on your husband with 6 different men. DISGUSTING.

Is this fake? It sounds ridiculous and then the way the husband is mentioned at the end for shock value... This can't be real, I hope.

I'm with Divine... seems fake.

I don't think she's being judged incorrectly at all...

I wonder if those men had girlfriends or wives...if it was yours you'd be calling her more than a slut or skank.

first of all, nasty. second of all, pathetic that it sounds like you're bragging. third, your poor husband. how could you do something like that to him?

i pity you.

who voted FORGIVE?
i can understand that sometimes people do stuff that is wrong but it can be forgiven for various reasons
this is not one of those times
what's to forgive about this situation? this is ridiculous and she should be judged as she is!
she's doesn't even feel remorse!

I don't understand these "true confessions" forgive or not forgive. Isn't the True Confessions website just a place to post a rant or confession? No one is asking for forgiveness. I also think this sounds like a fake confession--who cheats on their spouse four times in one week?

Not forgive - I DESPISE cheaters.

However, the fact that it was *so MANY* men in a short period of time makes me want to qualify by asking if:
a) you have a sex addiction problem; and
b) what the hell is going on in your life to make you do something so heinous??
If there's possible a bigger issue here, you should really go see a counselor or mental health professional TODAY.

BUT the fact that these trysts seem to be thought out well enough to USE PROTECTION makes me think that you're doing this for the sake of doing it. Stop jerking around your husband on this issue of cheating, and admit that you're just not ready to be committed - before he finds out the hard way. You're not just hurting HIM, but all the other guys you've slept with and THEIR possible romantic relationships, too.

I thought as Marni7 until I saw the part about the husband. Either this is fake (I hope so), or you have some serious counseling/big messy divorce to do. I will be the first to understand if your hubby doesn't satisfy you in bed, and that two sexual partners are way too little for an entire lifespan, but this was not the way to fix it. You should stop with the other men immediately, and if the guilt doesn't kill you, you should shut up about it for the rest of your life. If someone did this to me and I found out, I would be devastated.

That's terrible. Its women like you who give the rest of us a bad reputation.

"Too bad I can't tell anyone" fairly screams "I feel great and want to share!" Noting that all 4 men you cheated with are "out of my league" fairly screams "I don't think that much of myself."
So, you proved you can bag 4 hot guys in a week. A gold star for you.
Problem: you already bagged a hubby who loves you for exactly who you are-even if you don't love yourself (and it honestly sounds like you don't.)
First: stop cheating.
Second: don't tell him. This will only make you feel better about coming clean- he pays the price for the rest of his life by not trusting you every time you come home an hour late...beyond the initial pain and anger.
Third: invest in yourself. Make a list of 10 things that will make you think more highly of yourself. Take up jogging. Learn a language. Get a new haircut and start an IRA. Have sex with your husband more often. Once you like you more, you will like where you are (married) more-and hopefully cherish it.

That is digusting. You cheated on your husband with FOUR men in ONE week! Besides the fact that you are married 4 guys in one week is just disgusting. I know you used protection but we will probably see you on an episode of Maury trying to find out who your babies daddy is. That is just gross!

NOT FORGIVE! What the hell is this?

OMG you are married! It is unforgivable to cheat on your husband even once, let alone four times in one week. I really hope this was a joke.

if this is for real, you are a joke

I voted not forgive based on the info here. But I mean there has got to be something going on here to cause you to do this. Maybe an issue in your marriage, an identity crisis, a nervous breakdown,I don't know. I think you need to go see a therapist and work out your issues. Something is wrong.

I'd forgive the 4 guys in one week thing, girls gotta get hers but the fact that you have a husband is reprehensible. You deserve to get caught and get dumped. You have some major issues and you're taking it out on your husband.

I hope this is fake.

That is wrong in so many different ways, i'm all about having fun like that BUT before you get in a relationship of any kind.

How would you feel if your husband was the one that had sex with 4 different chicks in one week.

I think brindey has had, by far, the best input here.

Of course, that's not to say I disagree with everyone saying things like 'skank' and 'slut', but seriously, we can put more thought into our comments than that.

this has to be a joke... not very funny though...

First of all, I don't think that's good even if you are single-- no matter how well protected you think you are, sleeping with four guys in one week isn't healthy.
Now, because you are married-- that's even worse. I feel really bad for your husband. You shouldn't have gotten married if that's how you are going to treat him.
You're married, how do you find time to do all that cheating??

why waste more words on a fake confessions...come on. Something's not real here. Either it's fake altogether OR the guys were not hot but burnt up from the d- up. I didn't take it seriously at all.
I'd say the same, real or not. That is the very definition of a slut, skank, tramp, skeeza, so on a so forth.

i think maybe it's time for some therapy. this is behavior that is not consistent with your past behaviors and now you're having second thoughts. and what does "out of my league" mean? your letter sounds very unhealthy, please seek some counseling.

Mesayme:
"That is the very definition of a slut, skank, tramp, skeeza, so on a so forth."

Exactly!

How could you even think that you would be forgiven? FOUR guys in one week? What the hell? Where did you even meet these guys?

slutty trailer trash !

Sorry to be so harsh, but WTF is wrong with you?

Oh wait. Clearly, ego gratification ("out of my league") for a person who's clearly far too insecure to make a good and loyal partner, and perhaps she was too inexperienced to get married (having only had one other partner besides her husband).

But I still don't forgive. It's not acceptable to deal with your issues by CHEATING ON YOUR HUSBAND, let alone FOUR TIMES IN ONE WEEK.

OMG!!!! This story has to fake. How could she find 4 HOT guys in oe week...LOL

Idsims -- im with you - this sounds so fake.

hottness is in the eye of beholder.

oh wrong ... you're married ... if you wanted to boast your number you should have done it longer before you got into a relationship and got married.

Has to be fake. Someone wants attention. If it is real you should have had your fun before getting married. Oh well, too late now. If you're looking for a pat on the back it's not going to happen. You deserve a slap to the face!

Filthy. Keep your legs together!

my initial thought was that all four, or at least 2-3 of them, were at once

either way, this girl needs help!

having only ever had 2 partners, she probably wasn't too slutty before, but she is now!

if it's a one time thing, i'd have a better time understanding (not that it's right). people make mistakes. but 4 times in a week?

I had a nice little reply all typed out, but I think the bases have pretty much been covered. but does anyone else feel like OP doesnt even feel bad about it? Sounds to me more like shes bragging than actually asking forgivness.

It does sound like she just wants to brag--the "too bad I can't tell anyone" line--she wants to use the anonymity of the Internet to brag about something she knows people in her life would find unacceptable.

I can't believe she didn't realize the response she would get, though.

Agreed allour..I am wondering why it was posted as a forgive or not forgive thing..she doesnt seem to have any remorse about it!