My ex and I had dated for almost half a year after breaking up twice before, over a five year period. This time I had left the country for a trip, and within two weeks of being gone he wanted to break up. Within a month he had started dating someone else, whom he's still with. During the time I was gone, we kept in touch via phone and instant messenger. We fought constantly about our breakup (who said what and why) and he kept hinting at the fact that he wanted to get back together when I was back. I was not so fond of this idea, since he was dating someone else.

When I came back he immediately asked me out for a beer, and I went along. Again we got into a major fight about our breakup. After that I tried really hard to avoid him even though he kept inviting me out for very inappropriate occasions, always alone. I didn't see him, which only created another argument between us, since he could not understand why I didn't want to be friends. In the end, I asked him never to speak to me again.

Over a month has passed since, and he has started asking me to hang out with him again. I really don't want to — I'm scared I'll have feelings for him—but every time I say no he makes weird comments and continues pressuring me. He won't take no for an answer, and I've tried everything I can do to avoid him. What do I do now?

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