On a night out with a girlfriend, you head to the local bar. When you get there, you make your way to an empty table to settle down and order some drinks. Not two minutes go by before a couple of girls come over and demand that you move because they were there first.
When you tell them that you didn’t see any glasses on the table or jackets hanging on the chairs, they get more heated. They're obviously drunk and now they’re getting up in your faces, which is making being the bigger person all the more difficult. So how would you handle this?
Vera Wang
Torn By Ronny Kobo
Apepazza
I'd get a bar employee (a bouncer, if they had one) to intervene.
1I would stay seated, ignore them, and watch them make complete asses of themselves until a bar employee noticed and took control of the situation. I'm not one to be bullied, but I'm not one to start a bar brawl either.
2I would just let them have their stupid seats. They're not worth it!
3I would have probably just given them the table when they first asked. If someone is rude enough to come over and say that it was their table even though they didn't do anything to save it then I would assume they are too jerky for me to even deal with and arguing with them isn't going to solve anything. I don't like to be bullied but people without manners aren't suddenly going to develop them just because I try to teach them a lesson and it's not worth ruining a perfectly good evening over a table.
4I wouldn't move. If it was more than just the two of us girls there I would get a bouncer myself, but since this just says "You and a girlfriend," I'd just ignore them. If there were no jackets or purses or anything there then thats too bad.
5I would tell them to get the hell away from me, to grow up and find another seat. I dont like getting pushed around but I've also never been in a physical fight so usually, it just works itself out.
6I'd just sit there b/c my girl would be handling the situation. Lol. Majority of my friends aren't the type to ignore someone in her face. I'd simply pull over an employee and ask if these ladies have been served at this table and then place my order anyway.
7I agree with the ignore until an emplyee notices that they are being complete jackasses and asks them to simmer down or leave.
8Hmmm...If it was just me and my girlfriend then I probably would just move because i dont want to deal with the drama or I wouldn't want to get jumped. lol.
but if it was me and a few other friends, I would get in there face as well. Who knows.
9I would just ignore them because I don't believe in giving in to people like this (thus giving them a reason to keep doing it). I've dealt with annoying drunk girls like this before and they tend to give up before it escalates. And if it does escalate but you're the one keeping calm then you'll usually win in the end anyway.
10Get the bartender's attention, ignore them unless they touch me. If they touch me, I'm changing a couple faces.
11I would try and ignore them at first but if they kept getting in my face and no one working there came over to intervene I would do one of 2 things, get back in their face or move to a different table. It all depends on who I'm out with that night.
12...and furthermore, this is why I don't go to places where I have to babysit drunk people...
13get the bouncer; drunks are asked to leave
14Ignore them. And, if they are lucky, I will also have been drinking and be extremely sharp tongued....probably get myself punched, but it would be worth it. Words hurt a lot longer than punches do.
15Tell them we already started a tab at that table with a waitress, then start conversation with friend that pointedly ignores the two tableless rude chicks. Hail a bouncer if need be. This honestly isn't that big a deal; most girls are all talk and no action when it comes to getting in people's faces, so I wouldn't really be worried about some big smack-down.
16flip em off and go about getting your drink on.
17i hate entitled people like that, they're the same ones who at shows, they leave their spot at the front of the stage and then expect you to move
Ignore them. I did this to a girl on a SW flight. She got on the plane before me and put her stuff in a MIDDLE seat & went to the bathroom. I boarded the plane and took the empty window seat. After the plane is completely packed, she comes back and says she wanted the window seat and asked me to move. Sorry, I'm not a mind reader! There weren't any more window or aisle seats left--I wasn't moving.
18Punch them right in the face!
No, I'd just get the bartender or bouncer to kick them
out.
19I wouldn't move out of my seat! I'd continue drinking and go about talking and laughing ... at them! I mean come on, its just a matter of a couple of minutes before they get thrown out due to the ruckus they're making.
20Tell the b*tches that we were here first and if they want to join then by all means pull up some chairs or mover because they are cutting in with my friends.
21I'd tell them b*tches to step off. If they touched me, it would have been on like popcorn.
22nothing. hell....i'd invite them to sit with us...have a few more!
23I'd move! Nothing is worth confrontation with drunk girls.
24HELL NO I wouldn't move! I don't mind getting confrontational if girls are being beyatchs.. It's kinda ghetto I know but have some fking respect and ask me nicely or you could be cool and ask to join.. I'm nice, I don't mind!
25First of all there are no assign seat's when it comes to a club unless it's VIP and I'm sure this situation was far from that! I wouldn't let no women nor man come to my face with some bull sh*t about a seat unless it was my parents! I don't take threat's to kindly so if you want beef then you go to your local grocery store and handle that! I wouldn't get up for nothing b/c like I said if you want a seat that bad then go look for another table and next time let one of those silly girl's that are with sit at the table and hold it!!
26Just let the drunk girls have their table. Who cares...it's a table! Egging drunks on by ignoring them or telling them that no glasses were there isn't really such a great idea. And I also think having the bouncer intervene is a little childish, like a tattle tale. haha.
27lol and btw, from most of the responses here, it makes me wonder why so many girls have issues with each other. Let's just chill and not stress over insignificant things!
28i'm stubborn and i would just stand my ground and stay there. drunk people are hard to reason with, but honestly, if there were no glasses or sign that anyone was holding the table, then it was an open table for you to take.
29I'll just say "Ok there..." go to another seat with my friend, and laugh about it for awhile.
They're the ones looking like a fool in the situation, anyway.
No need to ruin your night because of some crazy b*tches. xDD
30I'd probably give them the seats, I dont like arguments ruining my nights. Or I'd call a bouncer, the bouncers at my favourite bar are pretty good, they tend to sort things like this out before it starts.
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