Whether it’s manifested physically or emotionally, we all deal with stress in different ways. Some people shut down, while others use it as an opportunity to open up. It makes sense that something as pleasurable and satisfying as an orgasm would be a great stress reliever, but feeling randy doesn't always go hand in hand with tension headaches and pressure. So which side of the line are you on?
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Dear Poll: Does Stress Get You in the Mood or Out of It?
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Elle Macpherson
Ummm it depends. Sometimes when I am really stressed, I need to get it on to relieve my stress and relax. I let it all out then and there.
But there are times, when i try and I can't. Most of the time, I do though. Thank God. lol.
1When I am stressed, the only place I feel like being is with my guy.
2I'm never stressed enough at work for it to affect my normal behavior at home with my fiance, and I'm never stressed about my personal life at all . . . so I wouldn't know how stress affects my desire to get it on
3I really don't feel like doing it when I'm stressed.
4If he caused the stress, he'd be safer going to hell than trying to 'get it on' with me... otherwise, I want to be loved when I'm stressed.
5feeling randy? I think thats a typo for dandy lol
6Not very good with stress - I don't really even want to talk to anyone when I'm stressed out, let alone have sex! Although I am willing to give a blowjob when stressed - it actually makes me feel a little better, in a at least I can do one thing right! kinda way.
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8I love it when anybody hears me out whenever I am in a bad mood and that sexually connection just really sets the mood.
9When I'm stressed I have no drive whatsoever (either in the bed or out). However, sometimes if I'm really frustrated then a good romp will help
10Randy isn't a typo, awkwardturtle. It's another word for "in the mood"
11Lots of stress recently, but I like getting it on as a release and mood changer and my man goes in the exact other direction. Turns into quite the situation sometimes!
12I'm always horny. Apparently even when I have a cold and I need to keep blowing my nose.
SEXY.
He didn't care.
Stress is no different.
13if i'm stressed it's hard for me to be "in the mood". as soon as the stress blows over, though, watch out!
14When I am stressed I am not in the mood for sex at all. I just want to be cuddled but after some good cuddling sex is always a possibility.
15LOL Mesayme!
Yeah, stress saps all kinds of energy from me, especially sexual energy. Bleh.
16I can't sleep when I'm stressed either ... so usually what happens is that I ask for something relaxing, like a foot massage ... so I can sleep and hope that the guy doesn't feel jilted.
17To me when it comes to stress I'm like most of the lady's here! I want to get it on but if he's the cause then it's best I take some time away until he knows how to apologize! When it comes to work and other little thing's all I have to do is go to my man and he'll take care of me! What ever the case may be it's always good to have something to relive that stress!!
18It takes a lot to stress me out significantly, and at that point i really just like ot be embraced. cuddling, a long hug, just being help [preferably by a guy (with nice shoulders)]
19oops. being *held*
20it takes my mind off the stress
21i would LOVE if stress would get me 'in the mood' but nope - that's not the case at all. i think that physical things are the FARTHEST thing from my mind when i'm stressed out
22It depends.
If I've had a bad day at work (or I'm suffering PMS) I just want to bleed off that excess energy that I've got when I get to his. It's a great way to relax and leaves him feeling fantastic.
If somethings upset me then I don't want anything to do with sex, I just want to be hugged. If I'm grumpy and tired then I ust want to cuddle up and have a nap.
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