Although the vast majority of you like to cuddle before bed, I wonder if you like to cuddle after sex. I would assume so, but this past weekend my friend who is a self-proclaimed cuddler and hugger, said she just can’t handle cuddling after sex. She likes to be near her boyfriend, but she needs to just be in her body alone for a few minutes before snuggling up. I found that cuddling anomaly fascinating, so tell me, do you like to cozy up after a roll in the hay?









QS By S.oliver
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depends, if it's just a booty call...then im more of a "...ok, you can leave now"...but if it's someone i'm actually romantically interested in, i'm all for it.
1Actually, the very first thing I do is hop in the shower with him. I dunno about others but things tend to get sweaty during sex so... shower first, then cuddling.
2My husband generates a LOT of body heat (whether sex is involved or not) so cuddling is usually out of the question unless I don't mind sweating 2 seconds into it. He makes up for it with foot massages afterward and I was never much of a cuddler anyway so it's not a big deal for me.
3Completely depends on the person! I've noticed that there are no hard and fast rules as to how I will react to a guy...
4I love to cuddle with my hubby after a good lovin', lol.
Even if I am just asleep, we usually end up right next to each other even if we start out on our seperate sides.
5I prefer to kill my mate and lay my eggs in his chest cavity. It's far more fulfilling.
6Mich... you praying mantis you...
Doesn't the cuddling/spooning make it all worthwhile? That's the sweet part, the most intimate part...waking up with his arms around you. I'm just guessing- I tazed my ex-husband if he lingered.
7don't really have sex, so don't know.
8I guess I don't get this - what else do people do after sex? run away? I mean.... we usually hold each other, chat for awhile and depending on the time of day, either get up and make breakfast, go to sleep or (if it's in the afternoon, tee hee!) get dressed and go out.
9Cuddling is a strong word for what I like - the sweat factor means I don't want to get too close skin-to-skin, but I like a bit of tender touching. Or if we have the sheets between us we can spoon.
10Of course I like to cuddle and hold him close after we have had sex. To let him know how good he felt and so I can know that I have pleased him right.
but then I need my space. lol.
11No cuddling for me. I usually roll over to the other side of the bed. I like my space after the deed is done. If we have sex during the day, I usually get up out of bed immediately after we're done, I can't just lay there.
12rofl Mich!!
My answer to the poll is a simple, "no".
13Cuddling after sex always feels sweaty and gross. Neither of us really cuddlers, though.
14No, Not really. I usually get clean afterwards, then I like to relax.
15I love cuddling anytime.
16I like to cuddle period, but sometimes I feel like your friend. I need my personal space as well and I like to be alone sometimes.
17I actually really don't like touching after sex... is that weird? I like laying around and talking, just not touching.
18I think Sarah that it is all up to the person that is on the recieving end.
19Yes! We're always cuddling and touching and he loves it as much as I do.
20I absolutely love to cuddle after sex but unfortunately my guy doesn't. He's a big boy so he sweats and gets very hot during sex. As soon as were done we usually just turn the AC on and just lay there in silence
21No Im usually hot and sweaty and want to be left alone with space to cool down... but my guy loves cuddling and sometimes it drives me crazy... lol
22I have a lot of energy afterwards, I'm one of those people. So I generally wanna get up and move around... or go at it again. Depends on my mood
Cuddling makes me fidgety.
23im usually sweaty and so is he so unless we are showering no contact please. but he likes to, then gets upset when i dont want to its sweet and frustrating.
24it's kind of funny - a lot of girls say that they don't like it when their partner just rolls over after sex and i have the opposite problem with my man...he always wants to cuddle and wraps his body around me, and sometimes i just like to have my space. i don't want to see rude about it but there are just times when i like to be left alone, not because i don't love and adore him but just because i love to have space just about all the time. does that make me a bad person?
25I love cuddling regardless! I'm a freaking limpet, cant get rid of me!
26well, after i get married, i would like to cuddle after doing it. but, after getting cleaned up. not before that. its gross.
27actually my close friend told me abt this and now me researching abt this cuddle . its interesting topic . n i like this also
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