The desire for sex varies from person to person, and can range anywhere from a constant urge to a complete lack of interest. Essentially there’s no right answer for how often you should or shouldn’t want sex, but if you’re in a relationship, finding a mutual balance will go a long way in creating a harmonious sexual connection. I’m sure you all have your own happy medium, but ladies, in general, how does your sex drive differ from his?
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When it comes to sex my drive goes up and down! I have urges more when I'm at work b/c I can sit at my desk and think about the night we had before or any night that we've had period! Seems like my constant drive hits me as soon as I see him and no matter where we are we think of places that will make it more interesting than just the bed! All it takes is his voice or hands to touch in places and then it's on!
1It's both.
2he has a high sex drive and so do i. Although sometimes after I cum and I am done, he wants to keep on going all night and I can't keep up. He literally does me to sleep. lol. Its hot though. I like it. When I want it, he is ready and so am I but like I said sometimes, he can keep on going and I am no longer lubricated. lol. Im happy with how we are together sexually he fulfills me.
Which is great cause my ex was a lame. lol.
I usually am the one who wants to have sex more! lol
3moi!
4I'm usually the one who has more urge, but he never denies!
We both have pretty high drives...but I am the one who pursues it more
and he likes that
5Judging from this week, we're evenly matched!
6We're both nymphos, hehe.
7Pre-marriage - him.
8Post-marriage - me.
me. most def.
9Id say we are pretty evenly matched. We are both down for it whenever.
10Definitely him, but we are working on it
11Me. absolutely.
12well, I'm celibate right now but I still have the 'urge'... lots of dancing
to 'She's a
Maniac!' LOL
13I'm glad to know that there are other girls out there with a higher drive than her man. I've always had a higher drive than my hubby and it used to bother me but I've learned to accept it and we've reached a happy balance.
14I have the higher sex drive mostly because my husband doesn't have any drive at all. I always want to have sex and he never does. I try and try and try and get turned down 95% of the time. It sucks!
15i think we both want it equally. pretty much not a day goes by that we don't have sex and sometimes its more than once. i think we both initiate it equally as well.
16We're about the same but he claims I'm the nympho in the relationship.
17I'm the one with the higher sex drive! It's way higher because he works full time and comes home exhausted so I have to push a little bit if I want any action... he usually doesn't say no though. ;p
18It's the same way with me Blair, I want to have sex a lot more then he does, I bring up how long its been and he acts shocked. It def does suck.
19OH YES! Thank goodness fellow sugars! I thought I was the only girl with the higher sex drive >. >
20His sex drive is WAY higher. I've never had a huge libido, with any partner. But we're working on it; I go by the mantra "you have to have sex to want sex" and I figure if we have sex regularly I will want it more. If it's been longer than a week or two I will sometimes initiate even if I don't crave it, because I know he does crave it; and he appreciates the ego boost.
21Mine used to be at the same level, but his is definitely higher now.. although I'm happy to oblige.
22he does
23He does.
24I do.
25I do, my guy is horny a lot but sometimes he prefers porn or a BJ (he's just lazy lol). When we do have sex, which is a couple of times a week, its AMAZING!
26we both want it equally and we both have a high sex drive so there's alot of sex going on! a day usually doesn't go by (unless i'm on my period) where we dont have sex at least once a day and sometimes twice or three times...
it's great!!
27i think that we both USED to have equal sex drives and i feel like sometimes i have more and sometimes he has more..but it's definitely a lot less than it used to be. i don't know what the reason is and it's kind of upsetting sometimes, cause i know that one of the reasons we got along so well in the beginning is because we were so into each other.
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