I slept with my boyfriend on our first date. We've been together for about 5 months now and its one of the best relationships Ive ever had.

Depends on the guy.

I met my man at a club and then went on a date with him about two weeks after we first met. We went out again less then a week later and we got 'er done. so... that was like 3 or so weeks.

i met my man camping so we hung out three days in a row...then went on a date, and then exactly six days after we met, we had our second official date and got'er done, but the amount of days we had hung out would even out to like 2-3 weeks in most other cases, so i chose that option cuz it's pretty standard of my other relationships too

I think it really depends on the guy, the chemistry and the mood at the time. There's not really a time frame. My husband and I were together right away, but my ex-husband and I waiting 2 months. I've had boyfriends that I never slept with, and some that I slept with right away and then dumped (Man, that's sounds bad. LOL).

We were in a long distance r'ship for the very beginning of our r'ship, so it ended up being a little over three months.

for the record, that survey SUCKED
i ended up closing it without answering
they didnt give enough options to answer properly. ridiculous.

It really depends on the guy.
And, their survey was terrible. There were a lot of things I didn't agree with, and I wish "Other" was available for all of them so I could fill in how feel.

I slept with my bf the first night we went out X-)

I am so bad haha, but I just trusted my gut! We're going on two years now, and still have mind-blowing sex and love each other SO much

Depends on the guy..depend on what you are looking for!

I'd wait much longer... the longest I've waited was three and a half years...and he cheated. So I met a guy right after that and we sleep together that week. Not for revenge but I realized that sometimes if you wait too long you're waiting
a-l-o-n-e...
so if I want to I will but with caution and requiring some test results. It depends.

yeah..that survey was pretty bad. I closed it without finishing. The only way to answer most of those questions is to have them only pertain to one specific relationship..which is not what the survey is supposed to be about. Like someone above said....I had boyfriends that I never had sex with, Ive had boyfriends that I had sex with on the first date. Its different in every situation, therefore impossible to accurately answer these questions.

it all depends on the guy and the chemistry we i have with him but, i wait at least a day before i sleep with him

I was with my boyfriend for over a year before we did. but hey if you have the guts 2 do it on the 1st date good for you but so not for me if i were to ever date some one else it would be about the same

It really depend who is the guy & how you really feel for him.
If is a guy that I totally have no attraction to.... even 100,000,000 years still would not happen.

100% depends on the guy and your feelings toward the relationship. There's no magical formula or simplified answer. Sorry guys!

typical maxim humor

In most cases for me, I'd choose the at least a month option.

I think it totally depends on your feelings toward the guy. I'd ideally wait at least a month but the first time I did it with my BF was on the 3rd time we met so I guess it's kinda unpredictable.

Does anybody do the 3 months rule?

i slept with my boyfriend the 1st time we hooked up, but i had know him for two years (and was dating someone else when we met) and we have been together for six years.

That survey did suck! I closed it also before submiting!

I knew my boyfriend for 6 months before we first hooked up. After the first initial hook-up (which was pretty much everything but sex), we waited about a week before we couldn't take it anymore. Let me tell you, the week leading up to it was almost as fun as actually doing the deed!

Hubbin and I have been together for 10 1/2 years today! Married for 5 1/2 years today! Slept together on our 1st date :ANGEL:
We hung out (not official dates) for a few weeks first. The chemistry is still there after all this time. There really is no time table like all of the rest said. Depends on the guy, the mood, and LOL

that was supposed to be an angel...

that will work I suppose.

i slept with my husband after 2 hours...

my other boyfriends ranged between 3-5 weeks...the other guys i was dating and then eventually slept with... well anywhere between 2-3 weeks... for some reason the casual ones where the ones i let loose faster (haha...literally...)

i hate to say it but sex is always an important part of a relationship and if its bad i need to know right away before i get anymore invested

i think every guy u met just thinks sex, male blood, so iv always waited over a mnth an found that while e waitin for the sex he gettin 2 no u. and when u give it up e finds ther more to u. give it up rite away, nowt else for him 2 no.

I make myself wait a at least a month if I'm interested in having a relationship.

Now, the (very) few times I just wanted a short something closer to FWB, I didn't wait as long.

It depends on the person. I think, sleeping with someone on the first date does not necessarily deem you a slut, as some people may believe. It can be a beautiful thing. Practicing safe sex is of the upmost importance, and then after that, let your heart be your guide. After all, a girl's gotta eat.

I've only ever slept with my current boyfriend and we waited almost 3 months. I was 24 but don't regret a thing... we have the most amazing sex and it was entirely worth waiting for.

That survey was ridiculous. Skin and penis aren't favorite body parts, but balls are? What?? You can only choose those porn options or "I hate all porn"? Jesus.

it ranges. i used to have a bunch of rules, now i just wait until the respect is there and that they'll truly appreciate it. lol. when i'm ready, i'll probably wait a little while longer bc i like catching them off guard.

It completely depends on how often you see each other from the time you meet until the time you sleep together. If you met 3 weeks ago but only had one date it's totally different than meeting 3 weeks ago and going out almost every night. I have to get to know a person before I sleep with them so it doesn't matter how little or how long it takes to get to that point.

I took the full survey and most of the time was able to answer pretty correctly. I am glad i did now too, because guys MY age are reading maxim, and obviously most of the women here don't agree with my view points so at least the guys will be ready for ME

for myself - i typically wait a little bit before sleeping with someone but i can't say that it's ALWAYS been the case. with my fiance now, i told him that i wasn't going to sleep with him anytime soon (i.e. 6 months) yet that went out the door about 2 months after we started dating since i broke my knee and we got close really fast

depends on the guy

Hmm after reading these comments I'm not gonna bother taking the survey.

Yeah it really depends on the guy. I slept with my current bf on the second date and we've been going on 6 months now. Others I didn't sleep with at all, waited 3-4 months or so and one I slept with on the first date. It just depends on chemistry I think.

Guess I better go take the survey so I can tilt the scales...

Favourite body part on a man - WHERE IS THE OPTION FOR PENIS?

what a lame survey..i wish they would let you choose more than one option for some of them (things you would never do? you can only pick facial OR peeing? wtf) but anyway i don't really have an average time...I've done the sex on the first date thing and the make him wait a month thing..depends on the situation i think! my current bf is actually my high school bf..we reunited after college..(aww, gag, i know) and he was my first! so technically he waited the longest

/wheres the option for over 2 years? or after marriage

like 2 months

I love how no one says anymore " I wait until marriage"!!!! LMAO

I actually do believe in waiting till marriage for sex, so my hub and I dated for about 14 months before we got married and had sex for the first time on our wedding night. And we really did wait, like no oral, no being naked together, no nothing. I know to most people that is totally crazy, and there seems to be this idea that you need to "make sure you're sexually compatible" or something before you commit to a relationship. But things worked out just fine for us and we have a great sex life. Just wanted to share since my experience seems to be sooo different than everyone else's. To each their own, I suppose!