I'm 23 and have never had a boyfriend. I've dated in the past, but as soon as it got anywhere (like after two dates and before we'd ever kiss) I'd bolt and just quit talking to the guy altogether. Recently I got a friend request on Facebook from a guy that was best friends with my older brother 15 years ago. I always thought he was cute. Now he and I have been talking a lot on Facebook and have met up a few times. We had a wonderful night last week together and we even talked about telling my brother. But we're both scared because my brother might be extremely angry. We established that we want to be a couple, but we can't tell my family or his friends because my brother might find out.

I've never found a guy I like enough or trust enough to stay with, and I'm beginning to freak out. Also, on a separate note, I'm worried because I don't want to have sex until marriage. We have kissed and I'm still not wanting to run, which is a big deal, but I just need some advice on how and when to mention that I want to stay a virgin for now. I don't want to scare him away. I'm so new to the whole boyfriend thing that I'm not sure what to do. I usually talk to my brother about this kind of thing, but I can't. What can I do about my brother and about telling my guy what's going on with me?

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