Creating your wedding guest list takes careful consideration. Some couples want a huge, blow out wedding while other couples want to keep their big day special and intimate. I'm here to give you some helpful tips so you can create your dream guest list for your dream day.
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- Talk with your fiancé and make sure you are on the same page in terms of numbers
- If your parents are paying for your wedding, make sure to consult them on your ideas for your list as they may have a different budget in mind than you anticipated
- Before you can start making your list, be sure you have your venue booked. The ceremony and reception site will play a big role in determining the number of guests you can invite
- Start with a big number, you can always take names off your list
- Discuss who won't be invited to your wedding. Be sure you see eye to eye on if you are comfortable with ex girlfriends/boyfriends or children attending your wedding
- Decide how many invitations will be given to your parents. Typically each set of parents are allowed to invite some of their friends to your big day
- If you and your fiancé are finding it difficult to whittle down your numbers, make an A List and a B List. Mail A Listers first and depending upon your responses, mail out your B List invites. This option might sound tacky, but sometimes it is an easy way to come to final guest list decisions
While you are sure to be overwhelmed with excitement, remember not to verbally invite people to your wedding until you are 150% certain you have room on your guest list. Congratulations and good luck!
oh lots of fun! deciding who you are obligated to invite, who will be insulted (but would never come) if they aren't invited, etc. weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
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