
Tipping is a very personal decision, and as I get older, I can see that different generations have very different views on tipping etiquette. The younger generation seems to be more generous with their gratitude, in my opinion, due to the fact that they currently are or at one time worked in the service industry themselves leading them to be more inclined to understand and appreciate the work at hand.
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- Since there is such a long laundry list of people to tip, always use your personal discretion. Some people are more tip happy than others, but not all circumstances require a tip.
- If you regularly see the same hairdresser, or frequent a specific eatery, tip consistently.
- If you have poor service at a restaurant, remember it might not only be the server's fault. Problems in the kitchen have a lot to do with slow service so talk to the manager before taking out your aggression on your waiter or waitress.
- Tipping pre or post tax is a common argument. To each their own, but most people tend to tip on the entire bill -- again, use your discretion.
- When you are paying for something with a gift certificate, at a spa or restaurant for example, tip is typically not included, so remember to tip on the total price irrespective of the gift certificate.
- Small tips for grocery baggers, make up artists, car detailers, shoe shiners, valets, food delivery people, coat checks, restroom attendants, etc are very much appreciated, but not mandatory. If you do opt to tip such services, a few dollars ($1-$5) is more than adequate.
- Here is a general list of tipping percent for everyday services:
- Hair stylist: 15-20%
- Server: 15-20%
- Manicure/pedicure:15%
- Spa service: 15-20%
- Brazilian Wax: 20-25%
- Movers: $10-$50 per mover depending upon degree of difficulty
- Bartenders: $1-$2 per drink
- If you dine with someone who disagrees on your tipping views, you can add more tip to your portion of the bill. You never have to tip the same amount, but should always tip on your specific charge, not the total bill especially if you pay with a credit card.
I hope these guidelines on tipping are helpful. An extra few dollars goes a long way when you are trying to be remembered at your favorite hot spot or if you want to make a good impression.









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3.1 Phillip Lim
Jean Marie
$1-$2 per drink for bartenders? That seems like an awful lot. I mean, if you ask them to whip you up something crazy, sure. But if you order a beer $2 seems kinda steep.
I read somewhere that you should tip the person who cleans your house. Anyone know anything about that?
1I always tip about $1 - $2 for drinks regardless of what I order. I have learned especially with bartenders that you get better service when you tip better and usually a drink or 2 free. My Mom used to be the worst tipper and when I finally told her how bad she was she felt horrible. Especially when it came to her hairdresser.
2yes tipping $2 for a drink is a lot, but i agree with Cubadog...it works itself out in the end because you'll get much better service, especially if its a busy bar and the bartender could otherwise easily ignore you.
$1 tip seems more suitable if you're in a chill environment and you're just ordering a beer.
3I paid my way through college by bartending and waiting tables. A couple of dollars extra to the server, bartender, hairdresser, etc. for good service means a WHOLE lot. I promise!! anyone agree??
4I used to work at a restaurant and I agree that younger people tip much better!! Most older people do not know how to tip, they always go between 10%-15%, while younger people tip 20%-25%. I love serving younger people becuase they don't complain as much as older people too... old people always complain about where they sit, the temperature, the noise, pretty much any thing that it NOT under my control...
5agreed with all the servers in the house! i was once in those ranks and can understand what they're going through. an extra dollar or two really does make a huge difference especially since the base wage is a little over $2/hr.
it's hard out there for a server...
6I was a Massage Therapist for 4 years and I do find that I tip more because I feel that it comes back to you. Especially since so much of my income came from gratuities, its a good thing to give back.
7brielle, i agree. old people are generally the worst to serve. 2 bucks on a 58 dollar bill yesterday. thanks for coming out *rolls eyes*
8i have a question..maybe someone can help me out on this one....i have my laundry taken out. this means my laundry is picked up, washed and dried, folded and then brought back to me and is usually left on my porch. initially i told the person who owns this business to just add on %5 for gratuity. is that too much or am i being too cheap?
9I would probably give your laundry person at least 10%.
10Good tipping advice. Thanks!
11Thank you so much for posting this! As a server, it's incredibly frustrating to work your tooshie off for a table and end up getting 5-10%. The more people that realize we work for half of minimum wage ($2.83 here) and depend on people leaving 15-20% to make ends meet, the better. Thank you again! (:
12We never tip here in Singapore - except in the hotels. We've got Customer Service Charge instead.
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