Sex can be a very impulsive act — I mean, that’s where some of the fun comes from — but that kind of passionate spontaneity can also lead to second-guessing later on. I’m a person who likes to believe that everything happens for a reason, and any mistake is just another lesson learned, but there are still things I regret. We can't take things back, but wouldn't it be nice if we could have a few "do-overs"? So ladies, do tell, which sexual encounters do you wish you could just delete from your permanent record?
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Do Tell: Are There Any Sexual Encounters You Regret?
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I would like to erase every sexual encounter I had with the first guy I ever slept with ... he was BAD ... and never got better.
1yes all but one
2Yes, a few here and there.
3A couple of those "Wow I didn't know I got THAT drunk last night" moments from my first year of college, yeah...
4Off the top of my head, there was this one guy, but it was a good learning experience (in hindsight), so it's not really a mistake, per se. I like to consider it a learning curve. LOL
5Yes, yes 2!!! I get sick to my stomach even thinking of it, I regret to the max. But I try not to dwell on it.
6there's a couple that i wish never happened. but what can ya do?
7I have a couple, but I'm over them. They were mistakes I made when I was really young (high school and the first two years of college), so it's hard to obsess.
8well looking back i'm sure that most of us have encounters that we wish that we could erase. there was the time that i was a bridesmaid at my best friend's wedding - and well if i could take that one back i would...but you know, it's all character building and it shapes you sometimes so it's not always bad.
9Well, there is one I regret not having, but that's all. I'm pretty young though. 2nd year of college.
10yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
11All but two O:-)
12all but 2 as well for me. my only serious relationships...and the rest were rebound cannon fodder.
13Nope.
14nope!
15No, none.
16There has only been one sexual encounter I've ever regretted and we didn't even have sex. I had been dating my first boyfriend for several years and we were going through a really rough patch. I met this random guy at a coffee shop who took a real liking to me. Without even thinking, I gave him my phone number. One day I went to go meet him and to take a walk. We ended up in a park and he was coming on WAY too strong. I had to say I couldn't do this with a complete stranger, even if I didn't want to be with my boyfriend anymore. It was a pretty close call but I learned from it.
17Mmm... anytime I had unsafe sex. There weren't any negative consequences from it, luckily, but it was so, so dangerous and such a terrible decision. I'd kick myself if I could go back in time.
18yessss this one guy who was horrible. had hair all over like chewbaca!
19oh goodness....
1st was atrocious.
20there were like 2 others that I regret, but whatever.....
my first boyfriend was great until she let her lesbian friend come between us after that it was down hill
21I guess high school and my early 20s, but, nah, it was still fun anyways
22A few times were with the wrong guys, but the actual act was good...so I don't regret it, I've learned lessons from sleeping with the wrong types of people, and I wouldn't switch that for the world, nor would I switch the fun I had with those wrong ones!
23I wish I'd never met the last two guys I dated. I regret having been intimate with guys who ended up disrespecting me.
24Yes, there were a few back in the day. I try not to dwell on it, though - what's the point of regretting things you can't change? I just consider those encounters learning experiences.
25i don't know how i've managed to avoid any one night stands...but do really, really unwarranted make outs still count?! i'd like to take back 2 of those. some serious douche bags who were way too obsessed with themselves. one of which felt the need to read his poetry aloud a la sex and the city in los angeles (samantha jones and her porn star lover. LOL!)
26i'd take back 5. some cause they were really bad. some cause i wish i hadn't gotten involved with in the first place.
27Every time that didn't produce one of the three that resulted in my three children!! otherwise... Delete (and I was married
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28
wth...you know what I meant...I hope
29Knowing what I know now, I regret every encounter before my husband. Looking back, I was too young, and they were all users. I hate the feeling that I was a notch on their belts.
30Nope I'm happy to say that there's nothing that I wished I'd done different.I've been intimate only with the few guys I had solid,long term relationships with and that's it. Honestly, I can't say that I've ever regretted having sex with any one of them.....
31I regret having bad sex but not the person it was with.
32I'd say that I'd like to take back two...my very first time (that's awful, I know, but it was all hormones and zero love for the guy), and a one-night stand mid-way through college. Otherwise, no regrets.
33yeah, a few.
i don't regret the act itself with those people .. but the aftermath. having to deal with them later.
34Just two. I mean, one of the guys was a real sweetheart, and we had a great time, but it was when my boyfriend and I were broken-up for a month, so I feel like I should have taken the time to be with myself, instead of jumping into another sexual relationship. Eh, it's in the past, though.
35Sure. But they make for colorful storytelling.
36yup...
37Oh ya...at least 2. I'm still kicking myself for one of those..
38None. I've never had a one night stand, I just think I'd feel dirty the morning after.
39ummmmmm, yeah
40Definitely the first one...and probably a few inbetween. Eeek!
41Yep, for sure. Yuck.
42nope
43I've had one that I wish I'd never ran across b/c he was not even committed to me in no way shape form or fashion. I have a few more but they made sure I was satisfied with the departure..
44yep, i regret hooking up on a beach and getting caught by a cop. VERY awkward...
45LOL
If only I could.
I would erase a few. I had some drunken/drugged out party girl days for a while.
46Like dear said, it's all a learning experience though.
o yea i dd...regret it every day
47I'd love to forget all but two of the guys I've fooled around with, my current and my first. If someone could erase those other memories? That would be swell.
48Having gone back to church, i would erase all of them before my husband. You live you learn.
49Having gone back to church, i would erase all of them before my husband. You live you learn.
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