After working with your gynecologist to find a birth control method that’s better at preventing your terrible PMS and cramps, you’ve finally decided on one that sounds promising. And after taking it for only a few months, you notice some big changes, both good and bad. Would it be worse if . . .
This: Your PMS has totally disappeared along with 10 pounds, but so has your sex drive? You’ve never felt better about your body, but less in the mood.
Or . . .
That: You’ve got control of your cramps, and find yourself consistently in the mood to get frisky, but you’ve also packed on more weight than you're comfortable with? You've tried amping up the exercise, but it's not going away.
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Ha ha - a tough one! That said, it was easy for me because I know how a low sex drive can ruin a relationship... so I chose the high sex drive. As long as I'm working out, I feel good in my skin, and the guy I'm with now totally wouldn't notice the weight....
1uggg that's like me right now! I am loosing weight because I have been stressed but @ the same time since I am stressed my sex drive has gone down
I jsut make my bf really warm me up...and watch porn! Lots! It is a wonderful thing to get you in the mood!
2I'd rather gain weight; that can come off through the gym. Now a loss of sex drive, that's another story! How would I get that back??
3i said i'd rather lose the weight and have a lower sex drive...i have recently gained 8 lb and i feel like crap about myself, so i'd love to shed that, and i have never felt what it's like to not be in the mood, and i feel like my boyfriend could easily fix that for me...but to be honest, both would suck
4i had to say 'that' since i think that you could figure out a way to get back on track with weight but if you don't have the sex drive then you're going to run into problems in your relationship i think. it's not like sex is the be all and end all - but it's kind of important in the grand scheme of things.
5It would be worse if I was losing weight.. a low sex drive can be beyond frustrating and can ruin a relationship. Although I wouldn't want to get chubby at the same time LOL!
6If I had a super high sex drive and was humping everyday, I'd probably be more toned than I was now.
7I find it very difficult to lose weight, even with a strict diet and regular exercise, so I'd rather sacrifice my sex drive. I also don't see how I'm supposed to have a high sex drive after gaining weight - even five extra pounds make me feel like a whale and totally uncomfortable naked.
8its a tough one! i went through something similar -in that i got on birth control and gained a lot of weight.. worst part was i couldn't get it off... afterwards - i got off the birth control but i realized because of it - my body's metabolism slowed down and i was more susceptible to gaining weight quicker... i hate it! so after that experience - i'd pick this over that...
9omg...call me vain...but i'd rather lose the weight...my man can just jack off looking at me
10I'd rather gain weight. The increased sex drive would help me lose it.
11I can do without sex I rather lose the poundage!
12hah! jessie i'm sooo w/you....
13Well the former is what I AM experiencing so I guess it seems less awful to me since I've been living with it.
14I could handle putting on some pounds, but losing my sex drive would be torture!
15Id rather gain weight.
16Right now i have lost about 7-10lbs because of stress and other just not having mush appetite, and my sex drive has taken a nose dive.
Im going to start working out again to increase my sex drive. Thats the trick if you lose weight cause u are working out your sex drive will actually increase, otherwise your sex drive will suffer.
Lol im too skinny so id be happy with a few more pounds as would my man. Hes fed up of impaling himself on my pokey bits.. im less huggable now
17I could use greater sex drive, so I chose the second option. I met my man at my heaviest and he's a very sexual being, so I think it would make him happy.
18I'm with glamsugar... you can shed the pounds getting frisky all the time!
19I need to lose my sex drive. Nobody can keep up with me.
20i'm an excellent actress anyways so really it would be the way it always is but i'd look better in tight satin.
21i'd rather gain the wieght and have a great sex drive then none at all.
22I already have a low sex drive and if I lost 10 pounds I'm sure people would be seriously concerned about my health. So I'll try the second option.
23Since going on the pill I've put on about seven kilos (around 15ish pounds) but my sex drive goes through the roof when I start a new packet.
I don't mind the added weight, as long as my clothes fit and I don't have a huge muffin top I'm happy. For my height I'm a very healthy weight and I don't feel as though it shows in a huge way.
It's easily managed though, if I binge one day I just eat really healthy for the next week or so. It's not hard because I love to cook and eat, so eating right is almost treating myself.
24I'd rather lose weight. You can always get yourself in the mood and then you'll be all set.
25i'd rather lose weight too. because right now, sex isnt important for me at all. i wouldnt mind losing weight but i wouldnt wanna be hard up 24/7
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