I am feeling completely unwanted in my relationship. My boyfriend of a year and a half and I live together, and we are rarely intimate. He never invites me to go out with him, even when it's not just a guys' night, and he doesn't even sleep in the same bed with me. He has insomnia problems, which he refuses to get help for, and he says he needs a TV to be able to fall asleep. I purchased a nice TV for our bedroom so that he could start sleeping in the bed with me, but that hasn't worked.

The other night he said he was tired, and he went to go lie down in the second room. When I told him I was going to sleep too, he said he would be in later. I don't understand why he can't just sleep the entire night in a bed with me. He claims he likes to have his relaxing alone time, but that doesn't make sense. Anytime I tell him that I feel unwanted he either says he will work on things or just gets angry. I don't think I am asking for all that much. If I ask him if he wants to be with me, he says of course he does, and that I should know that! I know that he hates his job and it stresses him out, but I don't think that's a good enough reason to act like this. I don't want to be without him, but I don't really want to be with him sometimes either. Why would he act like this? Is there anything I can do?

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