The new guy your best friend is seeing has rubbed you the wrong way from day one. You’ve always been nice to him, but you get a very sketchy and somewhat controlling vibe from him.
Most recently you witnessed some strange scenes between him and your friend where it seems he’s intentionally putting her down in a condescending manner. She’s taken to isolating herself, and you think there may be some emotional abuse going on. While it's technically none of your business, you don't want your friend to get hurt so how would you handle this?

....then i took his wife upstairs and tried to explain why i did
that...she understood...but she chose to stay where she is at. he tries to order me around...i just tell him to shove a white hot poker up his ass, and do it himself and shut-up.









you have to tell her what you think and how you feel. listen to her and also make sure you are ready to give example and tell her you won't judge her or constantly tell her shes wrong for being with him but let her know shes better than that and she doesnt need to deal with someone thats hurting her.
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