Afghanistan witnessed the country's first mass marriage, yesterday. Thanks to the Islamic charity Comfort Aid International, 50 couples got hitched in the city of Herat.
The charity of love covered the big cost of weddings in Afghanistan, which includes dowries and lavish parties with hundreds of guests. The marriages 50 cost $30,000 total, and each set of newly weds walked out with a $600 gift. About 1,500 guests attended, and the brides and grooms were separated for the ceremonies, according to the conservative tradition.
While the disadvantaged turn to charity, affluent Afghan couples increasingly enjoy Vegas-style weddings on their own dime, which some signaled as a sign of changing times. Popular Hindi music and neon lights come from wedding halls with names like Kabul-Paris Wedding Hall or Wedding Hall of the Evening Star. Limousines fill their parking lots. During its rule, the Taliban forbid lavish weddings and music. But the industry of lovebirds has made a comeback — there are more than 80 wedding halls in Kabul, compared to four in 2001.
Would you give to a charity that helps disadvantaged couples tie the knot? Can a Vegas-style wedding be a sign that better times have come?
J Taylor
Virginie Monroe
Diesel
Anything that helps to foster a sense of normalcy and continuity in a country as ravaged as Afghanistan is a good thing, IMO. Weddings tend to be happy affairs, and God knows they could use more of those.
1I would not donate to a charity that helps throw weddings for the disadvantaged.
Maybe once everyone has access to clean water...
2If i had enough money to give to all the charities I think really need help first, I might then get around to tossing a little toward a wedding charity. But only a little.
3This dowry tradition has got to go! In this day and age...
4I'm all for a dowry. Can I get mine now, even though it's been 12 years?
5Probably not the most pressing cause, but definitely a very sweet idea. I'd probably give something, though not as much as I would to an organization helping to fight poverty, disease, etc. After all, you can't get married if you're dead.
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