My best friend and I have been friends for many years now. Over the past three years we have grown apart, but remain friends because we've always been friends. She's not someone you can openly talk to about an issue, because if you do, she will "make up" with you and then be twice as vindictive later.
Recently, she got engaged and has asked me to be her maid of honor. Since then, she has done a few things I find hurtful, like get her wedding dress without me — I really don't care what dress she gets, but being there for that moment is something I wanted to do — and she has planned all other aspects of the big day without my input. I only hear what's been planned through others. I try to call her to do things like go wedding shopping, and she repeatedly turns me down. I offer my help and send her all sorts of ideas with no response. What is the point of being her maid of honor? I don't feel wanted. Should I take myself out of the wedding?
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