non-existent, that's what it was like.

It was great.
Now I am a sex addict! lol.

I was eight-ish. Now I'm fifteen-ish and they're still good :]

I was 13 and my boyfriend and I were dry humping (God, there really should be a more romantic term), and I had my first orgasm. I totally froze because I had no idea what was happening! I figured it out, and ever since then have been enjoying them at least twice a week.

And that pic looks like what my boyfriend does to me during sex - I keep telling him it's giving me neck aches afterwards!

Eh I don't remember now....I have had too many to count since....but I do remember the first time I HAD sex...OW.

20 years old. Alone in my dorm room. One cheap "stress massager" from Zellers. Just thought I'd see what would happen...

thought I broke myself haha

If you're talking about my first orgasm during sex, then...I haven't had it yet! My beau is more than frustrated about it, to say the least. But as a playful lad? It was with my ex - good times, goooood times.

My first orgasm happened by accident: I was in a swimming pool and I was taking a little break, resting up against the wall. I must have been in front of a jet, but I didn't even notice it until suddenly I felt my toes curl hard. I wasn't sure that what I had experienced was actually an orgasm, so I took it upon myself to conduct a little experiment in the jacuzzi later.

Mmm.

I don't remember the actual experience, but I do know that I was seventeen. How do I know this? Oh, cause I marked the date in my diary. LOLOLOLOL.

i was 18, messing around with my bf in the backseat of his car (classy!) we had just visited a porn store and picked up a cheapo vibrator there. he used it on me and it was EXPLOSIVE! haha

I think I was maybe one of few to experiment when I was really young around 10. I actually had no idea what masturbation was and thought I had just stumbled upon this awesome secret that nobody else knew about. it wasn't until years later that I figured it out. But I have to say I'm lucky because I knew my body very well before I ever got sexually active so it's easier for me to get there now. I know a lot of women who still don't know much about their lady parts and have a hard time talking about it. I had a friend who was 26 and still a virgin and didn't know about vaginal lubrication. She would fool around with her boyfriend and not understand why it was wet down there afterward. I think in a lot of places sexuality especialy female sexuality is still somethign swept under the rug and it's sad because knowing your body can only be good and can be helpful in future relationships.

I dont remember! but I was pretty young

I was six, climing on the side of a swingset. Like bransugar, I thought it was my secret discovery. Now I don't need a swingset!

I was a young bloomer too, and I thought it was this awesome secret. Probably age 5 or 6 and I was swinging sitting sideways on the swing. It did make my sex life better when I finally got to it 15 years later. Now I feel bad for women who don't understand their bodies.

Seriously, all this 5, 6, 7, 8 year old talk? Come on, that wasn't the big O.

Dear, is it really possible for a 5 year old to have one?

Don't be jealous

Seriously, I was six and had them regularly after the first time and it felt just like they do now! I just didn't know what they were at the time.

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Oh yea it can totally happen when u are young. I started when I was under 10 and thought it was just this great thing that gave me the shivers and felt really good...the innocence of youth. But starting young helped me to know ALOT about my body and what I like to have done to me in the throes of passion hehe. I do feel a lil bad for women who dont explore themselves cuz it can be alot of fun and pleaure begets pleasure after all. Now I am in my mid 20's and am very comfortable with my sexuality. I think that masturbating young (and often there after) has alot to do with it.

Oh yea it can totally happen when u are young. I started when I was under 10 and thought it was just this great thing that gave me the shivers and felt really good...the innocence of youth. But starting young helped me to know ALOT about my body and what I like to have done to me in the throes of passion hehe. I do feel a lil bad for women who dont explore themselves cuz it can be alot of fun and pleaure begets pleasure after all. Now I am in my mid 20's and am very comfortable with my sexuality. I think that masturbating young (and often there after) has alot to do with it.

i was either 11 or 12, and i was just fooling around by myself in the shower.
i didn't know what the heck it was, but i knew i wanted it to happen again.

I was a young teen, and I was by myself. One word: Sensational. However, I felt "twinges" when I was young, around 5 years old when I saw something somewhat arousing. At that age, I didn't know what was going on, but later, in hindsight, I figured it out.

Like some posters here, I'm comfortable with my sexuality. As far as I'm concerned, sexuality is a gift from God.

I think it's totally possible to have an orgasm early and I think sexuality is a gift from God too Glowing Moon. It really bothers me that so many people either hide it or misuse their sexual nature. I'm not for being promiscuous but knowing yourself and your body and being able to feel pleasure in just being a woman is an amazing feeling and I think it helps give you confidence and a sense of self that maybe is lost a little in others.

Oh I definately remember my first orgasm! I was like 16 and I was fooling around with my boyfriend and was totally surprised by it! OMG!

A little bit of TMI, BUT....

i was about 18 or 19. I was using vibrators. I got more pleasure from penetration than i did with clitoral.

So one of my rabbit vibrators was in use, and i decided to actually be patient with the rabbit part.

so after about 10 long minutes.....

ohhhhhHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's what a REAL one feels like!

now, i've mastered it down to 60 seconds.

A bit of curious self loving goes a long way...

I was a young child as well, I figured out what to do because of my girl cousin, same age, who told me about masturbation. She didn't call it that but like the others on here she thought it was this secret thing that no one else knew about lol.

little kids are the biggest masturbtors! Childhood is the time for self-exploration! That's when I had mine....

jeez.....looooong time ago. must of been when i was between 5-10yrs old. now my first boyfriend orgasm....i was 18 and he was just sucking on my nipples and 20 seconds later i was in heaven!

My first clitoral one was when I was maybe 10 years old, and totally by accident - I used to hug a pillow between my legs while I slept, and one morning I had clutched it very tightly during some dream and woke up with no idea what was going on. I actually felt terribly guilty afterwards, because my parents' sex talk was "these are boy parts and these are girl parts and you shouldn't ever touch them until you're married", so since I could at least tell where it came from, I felt like I had committed some terrible sin. Didn't really realize what it was until just now after reading everyone else's posts about figuring it out as kids.
First vaginal one was with my bf - he found out that I didn't know what an orgasm felt like, and took it upon himself to finger me until I did. *blushes* Just wondering... for me, the two kinds are two totally different sensations; what about you guys?

My first real big one was with my first love, the first time we had sex (not with my first lover - that was horrendous) -

I was like OOOOOOOOOOOOH OK! So that's what it REALLY feels like! Thank you God! (Thank you Fred...)

The older I get, the longer they last. My boyfriend is usually just lying there not knowing what to do because it just won't stop and he's afraid to move - GOOD BOY! LOL.

And to answer bekkachan, yep, they're very different - I can't give myself the vaginal type, which is so much more powerful and insane and long-lasting. I usually can't move for 10 minutes afterwards (thank God my BF and I always get there at the same time, I wouldn't want to go on for the life of me!...)

So I could never be a lesbian, I need da penis!

I was little too when I had my first clitoridal orgasm - I guess we're all the same here... my BF thought I was a basket case, masturbting when I was a little girl! It makes me feel a ton better reading this forum!!

Delicious and tiring. I could barely walk, stand or even think afterwards. My body was still reverberating from the aftershock. I was also drenched in sweat, eww!

I tried to give myself some as a kid, when I got aroused, but it just never did it for me. Even now, I need a man's help. I just can't seem to get there alone.

I was sixteen and fooling around with my boyfriend. We'd had sex many times before and I thought I'd had one, but I found out I was wrong!

My first orgasm didn't happen during sex (though I'd love for that to happen!). It happened from a combination of oral clitoral stimulation as well as G-Spot (or A Spot?) stimulation. It was pretty amazing! Only bad thing was that I was so dead afterwards, and my boyfriend still wanted to get busy. >w<</p> 36

Thanks karlotta. That makes me feel a whole lot better. ^_^ I thought I was messed up too, figuring stuff out as a little girl, but now I don't feel so strange anymore after reading all the comments here. Such a relief. Besides, how come it's strange for girls to figure this stuff out, but it's expected for boys, especially from 10-12 years old? Double standard, much?

first one was when i was little and did it every night to fall asleep, not knowing what it was or anything.
first REAL O was during my first time having sex and my entire body tingled for such a long time afterwards.
ahmazingg.

I was about 10 or 11 when I had my first one on my own. I remember the day quite clearly! I also remember discovering I couldn't have multiple... of whatever these things were. Nobody told me about masturbation though and I had NO idea what it was I was doing! I thought I was horrible and it took a long time for me not to feel guilty after masturbation. :/

My first "with somebody" one happened with my first boyfriend right before he broke up with me for the gazillionth time. At least he was good for something? I don't even know how he managed to give me one, he was so useless!

i was young also. had it by rubbing up against the corner of this bench my mom kept until i was like 13. i was addicted to them and was attatched to that bench every time we sat down to watch tv every night.
once i remember being late to a doctors appointment or something cus i felt the urge to go on the bench.
my mom wanted me to explain what i was doing to my doctor. i said its a stress reliever. i thought that because it made me sweat like a beast!
after she got rid of it i didnt touch down there till me n my one friend played around with vaginal stimulation. that didnt get me anywhere though.
a few years later, i was 16 and was just playing around down there with my clit. thats when i had my first one. i dont remember anything about it though since ive been addicted to them ever since and have atleast 3 a day now.

mine was weird, i just seriously tried masturbation the first time and then i felt it and was like "wow! that was intense!" and i realized what it was, and it was the strangest and best feeling ever.

my first real orgasm was with my boyfriend in his kitchen (haha not the most glamorous place lol). we were really making out and he shoved me against the counter, and something about the way my jeans rubbed against me when he pushed me... after that, well i'm sure you all can get the picture. but i do agree with those that say that sexuality is a gift- if you just accept it and embrace it, you would be amazed at how much everything improves in your life.

My orgasm by way of intercourse was when I was 20 (that's actually how old I am now ^^).

My family was out for church on Friday night and I asked this guy to come over and one thing lead to another - for the past year, really. He's tried to feel me up many, many times and this night I was pretty weak-willed! Anyway, I got rode sweaty and hard Italian Hanger Style on my family's dinning table!! That was how I lost my virginity... that was grrrreeeaaat night!

I just had my first orgasm today! I'm 16, and I've been with my first boyfriend for 10 months now. I'd been asking him to try eating me out for a really long time, but I finally gave up because he really doesn't want to, and bought a vibrator. Wow!

I suppose it was ok. Was 16 and it was with my first serious boyfriend.

Had better since then!

Of course the boy who was my first flatly refuses to believe that anyone could be better than him.

1st was when i touched myself as a kid
1st during sex was when i was 20 with my first boyfriend.. i was like
'more please!!'

It was just with in the last 5 months, with my boyfriend at the time. I don't know why with him, but he tried fingering me. Surprisingly I orgasmed from it. First time, and I loved it. To bad we never got any further, because he felt it was wrong, he was very religious, but confused.

I had starting having sex about a year and a half before with a different (long term) boyfriend, and never orgasmed.

I guess if depends on the guy...

k so i just started having sex and its probablly like my 5th time. so tonight we did it and it was awesome and i thought i was close to orgasiming. i know i sound dumb but how do you know if you did?

I was under 10 too, it was by accident and I had no idea what it was, just that it felt good and that I wanted to do it again...so I did . Few years later I started masturbating and realized, it was the same sensation...however, it was at the same time as my religious "sex education" started, and they told us it was bad to masturbate, so I always felt so guilty. Couldn't stop though Luckily, I'm over the guilt now...

Wow.. *blush*

Uuuh, I discovered masturbation when I was about 7, actually.. and turns out, I had always come close to it.

13 years later, my boyfriend was nice enough to take it upon himself to show me what a real one felt like. Now, thanks to him, I can honestly say I am a screamer.. which is ironic, because I'm not much of a talker. LOL

I think I may be one of the luckier girls.. oral was (and still is) something I've never had to beg him for, and he's never expected oral in return.