After nearly two years of harmonious dating, you and your boyfriend have decided to move in together [1]. You’re both extremely excited about the prospect, but after only a few weeks of living under the same roof, you’re learning a few things you never knew. You’re still compatible in most ways, but would it be worse if he . . .

This: Has no ability or desire to keep any portion of the place clean or tidy [2]? You can take messy, but it’s the grime, filth, and caked on crumbs that are killing you.

Or . . .

That: Has a very persistent habit of watching porn [3] until the wee hours of the morning? He only does it after you go to bed, but it stills feels too often to be healthy.

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