Tonight is the much anticipated (at least for me!) season finale of The Bachelorette and I'm crossing my fingers that she chooses Jason! I really liked this season, but I never quite understood DeAnna's decision making process since the last two men standing couldn't be more opposite. Jesse's a free spirit who marches to the beat of his own drummer while Jason is the traditional all-American dad who just seems like the obvious choice for DeAnna (if you ask me)!

Of course it's all about chemistry and the connection they've developed, but I just don't get how she can be attracted to such polar opposites. Clearly I don't stray far from my type of guy, but have you ever dated polar opposites?
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first off, at the risk of sounding super nerdy, i am so pleased with her final two men! they were my two favs from the beginning!
1and yes, i can see how it might seem weird for some to have such polar opposites up there, but i am the kind of girl who would find someone like jesse totally appealing, but would also fall for the sweetness of jason, so i can understand that she has a connection with two totally different men!
absolutely have
2omg totally. All my boyfriends are sooo different. I guess as I go on, I start to filter out what I DON'T want...
3I MARRIED my polar opposite and it has worked out great!
4AND I have dated guys that are sooooo different from each other. Never the same type twice....
5to answer the question, yes i have! i certainly don't have a "type"
6I married one, too.
7The only for a guy that was different from me was his race and weight..lol
8go team jason! as for dating polar opposites, i haven't experienced that yet
9wow! i haven't watched since the second episode. as much as i like jesse and jason, i would have never picked either to be in the final two.
10I dated a guy who was really, really different from me... it was fun at first but it didn't work out because we wanted different things in the end.
11My boyfriend and I are poplar opposites, I am more outgoing, liberal and happy go lucky and he is more shy, traditonal and reserved.
Glad to hear from Glowing Moon and Martini Lush it can work out!
12I guess my polar opposite is someone who is a bad boy, cause i'm a good girl.
13And prob someone who knows what there going to do with the rest of their life cause i have no idea! sad, i know.
14Yes, I have.
15I don't watch the show, but I have to say I absolutely love her dress there... Fabsugar needs to find it for us!
16Second that elements-She so picked the wrong guy! Jason is awesome!
I have dated a polar opposite before, and it was a disaster. After the initial attraction faded away all we did was argue! However, my best friend married her polar opposite and they've been happily married for years, so I guess its dependent on the couple.
17Yep...she totally picked the wrong guy. It won't last. Team Jason!
18My husband is the exact opposite of the guy I liked in High School. The guy in HS was blonde, tall, muscular, with brown eyes. He had a bad temper and was really into sports and drinking and partying. My husband is a brunette, kinda short, not as built, with green eyes. He's the sweetest guy I've ever met. He doesn't play sports, party or drink.
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