Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this True Confession.
"I got dumped by my fiancé a week ago. I thought he was off 'thinking' about our relationship and I held out hope that it wasn't over. But then I saw his dating profiles were updated and I realized that he'd moved on. That cleared the wool from my eyes, and only a few hours later, I hooked up with a previous friend with benefits. Man — sweaty sex is the best therapy ever! Can I be forgiven for moving on so quickly?"
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forgive. he broke up with you & has already moved on, what's the point of sitting around pining for him?
1Of course ... there's nothing to forgive because you didn't do anything wrong. I wish I could move on as quickly
2What exactly do you need to be forgiven for not only that it was just sex to me moving on is actually being in a relationship with someone not just having sweaty, pissed-off at your ex sex.
3friggin right; he broke up with you and already updated his DATING PROFILE! you are allowed to have revenge sex
4I wouldn't consider a hookup after a breakup "revenge sex," but that's just me.
There's nothing to forgive! If you feel badly about it, take a little break from life and dating, but then get right back in there. It really is the best therapy!
5i agree with everyone above. He broke up with you! That's nothing to be ashamed about sleeping with someone else right afterwards.
6The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
7Fallen you beat me to it! LOL
8I don't think it's anything to feel bad about.
Its called rebounding. Its the best way to get over a hangup. You somewhat feel better about yourself because someone is interested in you physically.
9Good for you!
10Who exactly would have to forgive you here? Certainly not him. Yourself? You don't need to give yourself permission to find pleasure!
11forgive. it would only be bad if your rebound guy was expecting something to come of it and you were only using him. but seeing as he is a friend with benefits.. there is no problem here!
12Forgive. Though you needn't ask in this instance. Good for you and hope it was better than with your selfish EX-fiancee.
13I say forgive way to play it like a dude. they don't wait or sit around weeping over us why should we do it for them? besides this guy was going to marry you and then a week after he breaks up with you he's trolling for new babes. I think you should have filmed the sexcapade and sent it to him.
14Hey, there is absolutely nothing wrong with choosing to enjoy yourself rather than wallowing in misery over the breakup!
15Nothing to forgive! Have fun! If you're not in mourning, no reason to force it upon yourself because you feel it's expected or something!!
16Sorry he wasted your love and time. Now . . .let's pack up, go to Miami, and have a sh*tload of revenge sex with guys who are more worthy of your time!
17Did you update your dating profile? If you are on facebook, make sure you update your status to "just did it." =)
18You ladies crack me up. Excellent advise!
19Forgive! You were a free and single woman! Haven't you heard of that saying? The best way to get over someone is to get under someone. Enjoy.
20Who's to say that you've actually moved on though?
21You're my hero.
22No question...forgive!
23Forgive! Of course!
24lols rebound
25I forgive ya
LOL, better than pining for him, especially since
he's already moved on.
26You aren't together so it's definitely okay. You shouldn't be sitting around hoping he'll change his mind. It worked, didn't it? Good for you.
27absolutely! he was clearly not committed enough to communicate his needs or feelings, so you're free to do what you want and need to do!
28forgive u for the moving on part. but u couldve moved on like ure ex finance. i hate the friends with benefits type. but hey, its ure life. lol.
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