I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, and I would do anything for him, but it seems to be a one-way street. We plan on moving in together next year, but lately I've been questioning that decision. My boyfriend tends to get upset over the smallest things, and it has a very big effect on me. For example, over the weekend while at his place, I decided to make breakfast and ended up using the last of the oil. He got overly annoyed, so I left immediately to go buy a new one, because he wanted to know when I would replace it. He thought I made a big deal out of the situation by going to store, but I was simply reacting to his behavior. I have done a lot for this guy and have never asked for anything in return.

I do not want to end up like him and refuse to contribute to our relationship, but at this point I'm sick of his attitude. I'm tired of him making me feel guilty when I retaliate. How should I handle him next time there is such an incident? Would it be just as bad to retaliate by limiting what I do for him? I don't want to be taken advantage of either. Is this only going to get worse when we move in together?

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